Dear /adv/,
I really need your help. I have, for the longest time, had terrible luck in the sexual department. The last 7 times now with 2 different girlfriends, I just can't get my dick up to save my life. I can't do it. I have no idea why either.
I can get morning wood no problem. I can fap no problem but when my girlfriend wants sex, I can't give it to her.
The last few times I just either eat her out or finger her so at least she feels good. Me on the other hand, I don't feel good. I just sit there limp as a sock.
It has to be psychological. What can I do about it?
Am I forever doomed to be a virgin?
>>17328370
have you ever heard about cuckolding?
You got a mouth full of clit and you still can't get hard?
I'm sorry son I think you might be gay
>>17328370
performance anxiety probably. you're putting too much pressure on yourself. it's just the nerves of being with a new person, someone you like, and the desire to perform. you need to stop thinking so much.
halting/cutting down frequency of masturbation could help too.
>>17328386
who the fuck is hard while giving oral you virgin fuck
She didn't suck it for you?
>>17328390
I concur.
Either you watch too much porn/masturbate too much or you have performance anxiety of some sort.
If the big guy doesn't feel like the fucking man of the town then how can you expect the little guy to?
I mean fuck, you are about to complete your ultimate, primal goal in your pathetic existence to deposit your seed and propagate your genetic material. That is some bad ass shit dude. You're the fuckin man now go slay some pussy
Try not fapping for a while and abstain from porn. You'll be hard as a rock after not jacking off for a while.
Sounds like you got Death Grip. Don't fap for like a month bu ge hard anyway and you'll be fine. Also, quit taking this thing so seriously. Sex is supposed to be fun, not a military strike.
>>17328390
i was always hard when I gave oral to my exgf.
>>17328389
So I just need to relax then? How?
>>17328394
Suck what, my limp dick?
Whatever
>>17328533
Yea dude. That mug will stiffen up real quick.
>>17328533
get out of your own head. you've got a horny girl in front of you that wants to be pleased and please you. doesn't require a lot of thinking.
focus on her and pleasing her. enjoy her doing the same. get lost in the physical act of it.
