I just recently got into a relationship and lost my virginity, but I'm having a huge problem that I can't seem to fix.
No matter what, I can't seem to cum from anything that isn't my own hand. Even the other day when I was getting a blowjob and felt myself getting close I still couldn't cum.
How do I fix this? I've sworn off masturbation and haven't touched myself or looked at porn for almost a week now, I'm hoping that will fix it soon because I think she feels bad that she can't get me to orgasm.
Am I overthinking things in my mind and that's why I can't orgasm? Or am I just permanently fucked from being addicted to jerking off daily for so long?
Almost no one can orgasm from just a blowjob. Women just plain suck at them (no pun intended). Unless you're raw dogging her slobber hole, you're going to have a hard time achieving orgasm. That's just how it is.
>>17323369
Really? So I'm gonna have to always finish myself off with my hand at the end?
I thought maybe I had fucked myself over with my constant porn watching all these years and my brain is hardwired to only cum from jerking off to porn. It used to be I would jerk off once a day minimum, sometimes up to four times a day. I thought that might have had something to do with it, and I just need to make my dick more sensitive again.
>>17323369
Woah, I must be awesome at blow jobs then.
stop seeing it as a huge problem. if you stop caring so much about cumming, it will eventually happen. assert her that it isn't because of her, if she keeps freaking out she probably is as mentally unstable as you and you should dump her. No but seriously, just relax, don't masturbate and you should be good soon enough
>>17323369
> Almost no one can orgasm from just a blowjob.
I second that, and I tried very hard.
