>>17319139
Have relationships with whoever you have chemistry with, don't feel like you should be seeking only people similar or different to you. In my experience the best relationships have a degree of similarity mixed with some areas of difference. That way there is common ground and you can feel comfortable together while also keeping things interesting and allowing for each partner to fill a specific role in the relationship.

>>17319147
Thanks for the reply,after reading over my post I realised how black and white that approach sounded.I guess the similarities keep people together and the differences keep it interesting.

>>17319139
If you go for the shy girl then being "chill" and "quiet" won't work at all. You have to come out of that and that's why you think opposites work.

At the end of the day though you probably want someone who can bring your out of being so shy and reserved, which could be done by either type of girl really.

>>17319153
Yeah,being quiet has done me no favours so far

I know your situation, am an introverted guy, but in relationships, that may change. One of my exes was very quiet as well, so i was very active and talking a lot. Other one was very talkative and always wanted to do stuff and i mainly listened to her and didn't talk a lot at all, because after a while i stopped knowing how to talk a lot. You just need someone who makes you feel comfortable with your position, a quiet girl can make you open up more, while an active girl can make you even more quiet