People who have been in a relationship or are in one now, do you ever just think that your SO is going to cheat on you or worry about it? Even if they haven't really given you a reason to think that? How do you deal with these intrusive thoughts?
I thought this about my ex, she was practically obsessed with me and so I thought I was just being paranoid for nothing
Then she cheated on me
>>17317517
well that's not very comforting at all
>>17317511
I just kind of roll with it. If they cheat on me, bullet dodged. Hopefully it'd happen before things become too serious.
I'm completely comfortable with my SO. While it is a long distance, I'm certain they'd never cheat. In all honesty, worrying that they'd cheat can boil down to insecurities that you might have about the relationship. Is there a reason you're feeling insecure? You might want to address that first and talk about it with your SO
>>17317517
>>17317536
Well if it happens, then it happens. Worrying about it won't do you any good
>>17317549
This guy has the right idea
>>17317549
Best answer. Hope she does it early in the relationship and you just saved yourself time and money and big heartbreak
>>17317511
They will it they won't. Nothing you can do to stop it and sometimes people just decided to cheat without any signs leading up to it.
All you are doing now is worrying about something you can control. Best to spend that energy working out how you'll react if it does happen
I would never cheat on him but I think about it a lot.
Four years, living together for three.
I'm not naive, and if red flags arise, I will make my own thorough investigation.
The deeper down the road we go, however, the more I like her, and the more I trust her. She's going to study abroad for 5 months next year, and we're going to make it through just fine. But knowing that she could theoretically cheat without me having a clue, is not a comforting thought. So I choose to trust her.
