Should a guy lie about being a virgin when you're over the age of 21?
>>17312680
There's no "should" about it. Say whatever you want to say. It doesn't really matter.
Also, make your pronouns match, dude!
>Should a guy lie.... when HE'S over the age...
or
>Should YOU lie... when you're over the age...
>>17312685
kek
>>17312685
>Also, make your pronouns match, dude!
I'm glad to know I'm not the only one who suffers from this form of autism
>>17312680
>>17312689
grade school grammar isn't autism
>>17312680
whatever makes you feel comfortable and confident, just get the deed done
>>17312680
Depends.
When in question dont lie.
There is zero difference between a guy that had sex once at the age of 16 and you being 21 and having zero sex.
Lost my virginity with 22, sex isnt hard at all. You are literally built for it, you will learn fast and there is not that much you can do wrong.
I got laid at 22 after telling a good friend that I was a virgin and felt like shit about it. Of course we found eachother atractive, but still.
Theres no general rule I suppose.
>>17312685
>Should a guy lie.... when HE'S over the age...
nope, sorry Tim, it's:
>Should a guy lie.... when THEY'RE over the age...
>>17312680
It really depends on who you're talking with actually. My sisters know I'm a virgin, some of my friends think I lost my virginity when I was 20, while my boss for some reason seems to think that I've been having sex everyday since I was 18. Btw I'm 28
>>17312708
Why would you think the pronoun for a single male is "they?"
Who taught you grammar?
>>17312743
you're trolling right? wait until you progress to chapter 6 of your grammar book, it's going to rock your world
>>17312748
One of us is trolling or ignorant, but it isn't me.
The gender of the subject of the sentence is known to be male. The pronoun to use, then, is, "he."
In cases where the gender is unknown (including rhetorical questions with gender non-specific subjects), there is sometimes a need for a singular, gender-neutral pronoun. As English doesn't have one, "they" has been pulled into that role. But there's no need for gender neutrality here. The subject of the sentence isn't gender non-specific; anon is asking about a rhetorical male.
Not really.
The kind of girls you're going to sleep with will not exactly be the cute, shiny, picky ones who care about this :P.
>>17312702
Not true. Sex is really hard if you're not hard...
Na but you should hide it and never reveal it. And if the questions comes up, just say it casually like "na i just never found someone that liked me enough and i liked them" most girls are cool as fuck with it desu.
Only if she is a really strange judgmental bitch she will judge you for it, if the girl is interested in you, it's only positive because she will think she is more special.
Unless you're sending off red flags, or you personally steer the conversation to the topic, it's a question never comes up.
Stop overthinking girls, be cool & playful, and everything will be awright.
Knowing that you're a virgin makes it hotter.
>>17312680
Yes.
>>17312703
Please tell me more about how you got to the point where you fucked your friend, like what was the exact conversation?
What if I'm about to get laid, should I tell her I'm a virgin so she understands why my performance is so poor
>>17312824
This.
>>17312680
If you're this insecure than maybe you should.
Depends, mostly depends on where you live.
>being 3rd worlder live along overly religious people
>over 30 and not married yet
>not a virgin
>people will try to lynch you anyway
>>17312680
im virgin too but if i have $1 for every time i masturbated i would probably be a Rotchild! :)
>>17312680
Just be the conservative men who doesn't fuck with anyone without being in a good relationship. Find a girl who is virgin too and I'm sure they appreciate/understand it.
>>17312680
I suppose that depends on what your goal is.
If you want to lose that virginity then yeah you better lie. There's only a narrow window in the early teen years where girls are willing to have sex with a virgin guy. After that they'll believe if you're still a virgin then there's something wrong with you and definitely not want to have sex, trapping you in a catch 22 where the only way out is to lie.
Don't tell anyone you're a virgin if you're out of high school. It's just a bad idea, because there's too much social stigma in our dumbass society. I tell people this all the time. Act like you've been laid at least once or twice.
NO ONE CARES THAT YOU'RE A VIRGIN EXCEPT YOU.
NO ONE WILL MAKE A HUGE DEAL OUT OF IT UNLESS YOU DO.
I mean what the fuck do you plan on doing, blurt it right as she is about to sit on your cock?
People are only annoyed by virgins who act like fucking idiots because of it.
depends on your reasons
if you were a social outcast it might be best to disassociate yourself with that past
if you were like me, a vidya nerd and spent your teen years playing MMOs when not in school or studying, it's less alarming and more understandable
I wouldn't lie about being a virgin, but I could see some circumstances where you WOULD lie about WHY you're a virgin
>>17312680
If it its serious, don't lie. If you are trying to hookup, lie lie lie! I've tried to hookup and told a girl I am a virgin, she got so turned off and just didn't want to do anything.
>>17314914
> I've tried to hookup and told a girl I am a virgin, she got so turned off and just didn't want to do anything.
How close were you to actually having sex when you told her that and she got turned off?
>>17314930
Clothes off, making out, everything
She did blow me a bit afterwards but she totally lost interest afterwards.
>>17314951
wow, I would have guessed you were just flirting or something. That's something else. I already knew it was a good idea to not tell people, but that just reinforces it.
I mean, really though, why the fuck would a girl dry up so much over that? Guys don't care about screwing a virgin girl, in fact, thats actually an accomplishment. This kind of stuff makes no sense to me.
>>17314971
I've known guys who wouldn't sleep with a virgin girl. I think they feared the girl would get clingy.
>>17312699
grade school grammar isn't autism, but providing answers for questions nobody asked is
>>17313027
We were chating about depression and shit, so it came up.
After I said that it was like "aw geez, thats not bad anon."
We chat for a while then she invites me to her house.
She had invited me before but I didnt go because she had a boyfriend. This time I went and after talking for a while (she even mande a bit of fun about the virgin thing, like, laughed at me but in good nature, like friends do) she put on some music and sat next to me, there was a seductive silence, kissed her. She says "i dont want to fuck things up" i say "we already have" then we fuck.
>>17314971
Women tend to operate as a hivemind and place a lot of importance on letting other womens opinions influence their own.
When they know other women have never slept with you they start subconsciously thinking they shouldn't sleep with you either. And it works in reverse too, when they think you're a playboy thats fucked tons of women they want to fuck you too.
>>17315087
Also they don't want to be the one with more experience generally
virginity is like a treasure in Indiana Jones movies: hard to find,easy to lose!
its hard to find someone who is pure in this filthy world and its extremely easy to corrupt him!
so my advice for you ,my friend, is STAY A TREASURE!
watch a lot of 'romantic, couples vanilla' porn videos
get a fleshlight and mount it somehow to the wall/floor and fuck it while watching, try to last between 15 and 20 minutes and build speed
boom, you're no longer a virgin, as a matter of fact you're probably more skilled than the average joe
>>17312680
>watch a lot of 'romantic, couples vanilla' porn videos
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>get a fleshlight and mount it somehow to the wall/floor and fuck it while watching, try to last between 15 and 20 minutes and build speed
>
>boom, you're no longer a virgin, as a matter of fact you're probably more skilled than the average joe
Ok, that's it buddy no more American Pie movies for you!
Off to bed!
>>17315182
You're an idiot and obviously a virgin. There's no way in hell a fleshlight even comes close to the experience of fucking a girl. This dude could fuck his plastic pussy while watching shit that emulates a romatic relationship forever and still be at ground zero when he drives his cock into a girl for the first time
To answer OP'd question, no don't lie about shit you idiot. As a universal rule just don't do it. You don't even have to disclose that you're a virgin, but if you feel the need to tell her just be mature about it
If it's some random girl you're just gonna fuck then just do it. Everyone starts somewhere. The first time you fuck doesn't need to be special
>>17312680
>>>17315182
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>You're an idiot and obviously a virgin. There's no way in hell a fleshlight even comes close to the experience of fucking a girl. This dude could fuck his plastic pussy while watching shit that emulates a romatic relationship forever and still be at ground zero when he drives his cock into a girl for the first time
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>To answer OP'd question, no don't lie about shit you idiot. As a universal rule just don't do it. You don't even have to disclose that you're a virgin, but if you feel the need to tell her just be mature about it
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>If it's some random girl you're just gonna fuck then just do it. Everyone starts somewhere. The first time you fuck doesn't need to be special
"Everyone starts somewhere" i'll agree on that! i have started with your mother :) she teached me everything!
>>17315206
>You're an idiot and obviously a virgin. There's no way in hell a fleshlight even comes close to the experience of fucking a girl. This dude could fuck his plastic pussy while watching shit that emulates a romatic relationship forever and still be at ground zero when he drives his cock into a girl for the first time
kk
>>17315224
FAGGOT
NOONE IS A VIRGIN BECAUSE LIFE HAS FUCKED US ALL!!!!!
>>17312797
Adding to this anon, the most accurate way to use pronoun when sex is unknown is to use both: "should a person lie if he or she..." It is becoming more common fashion today to use "she" alone, however I will leave it to you guys discuss what the reasoning for that is
>>17312680
Definitely, I screwed up with 2 different girls by being honnest and saying I was still a virgin and the thought made them uncomfortable.
