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Should I end it with my girlfriend of over 2 years because every person in my family dislikes her and her family?
A little background. I also can't ever see myself marrying into her family. They are kinda the worst. They are all overweight, and not because of health, they are just lazy and have a relationship with the people at the cookie cake place. My gf used to be fit but I feel she is falling into her families habits and it's unhealthy.
The decline with my families impression of them started when her mother told mine that they expected me to be a stay at home dad as I pretty much wouldn't amount to anything. Even though I'm in school getting my masters in Computer Science. My mothers friends have confronted her about their knowledge that my GF's parents are a mess and it seems they have a bad reputation. I also feel that I'm being controlled at times which other people have confronted me about..I don't want that reflecting on me, but I don't want to be so closed off or controlled... What should I do here....??
>>17310349
>I also can't ever see myself marrying into her family.
then leave her.
if you can't imagine yourself marrying her because her family is that bad, then you need to find someone else. that's my two cents.
also don't use pepes if you have a girlfriend, that's just fucking rude.
Pepe? What's that?
>>17310466
>also don't use pepes if you have a girlfriend
That's clearly The Grinch
So, what you're saying is that you don't see a future with your girlfriend?
Maybe you should stop wasting your (and her) time?
>Should I end it with my girlfriend of over 2 years because every person in my family dislikes her and her family?
That's kind of a silly reason to break up.
>I also can't ever see myself marrying into her family.
That's a much better reason. End it.
>>17310349
You're not in a relationship with her or your own family, if she's alright and you can positively influence her, stay with her. Minimize contact with her family, tell your parents to focus on your girlfriend only.
