I feel like I was forced into something and I'm not all that happy about it.
My friends and I do a big trip every 4th of July to a beach condo owned by my friend. It's a great time, actually my favorite place in the world, but my uncle recently killed himself and I've been having a hard time dealing with it. Last night I expressed that I was probably going to back out because I need to just get my life back in order and get some rest.
Our friend, who owns the condo, let me know that if I canceled, she was going to cancel the trip for everyone.
I didn't want to be the person who ruined everyone's time, so now I'm going, bit I feel like my hand was forced. What do I do about this?
I would say to go. If it turns out to be too much then just leave.
>>17308334
Your "friend" is a dick for forcing an ultimatum on you.
However, maybe some relaxation is what you need? Life does go on. The longer you dwell on it, the bigger of a deal it becomes.
Side note: tell your friend I said to go fuck herself in the ass with a pinecone. Then take a picture and send it to me. For science.
>>17308334
Sounds like a dick move, did you try reasoning with your friend at all about this?
like a "Really dude? you're gonna ruin everyones time because I don't feel like going because my uncle just offed himself, you cunt."
Cause you should, and if then your friend still doesn't budge, at least you know your friend is a huge dick and didn't just not realize what they were asking of you.
