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Been almost a year, I feel I need closure?
2016-06-29 06:32:46 Post No. 17305483
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Been almost a year, I feel I need closure?
Anonymous
2016-06-29 06:32:46
Post No. 17305483
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>Hung out with and went on a few dates (Off and on) with really shy girl when I was 18/19, she 17 over the span of approx 8 months.
>Seemed to get along well enough for the first 5-6 months. Really liked her. Told her my feelings and she felt the same.
>Cloud9RightNow
>Shit starts declining, I'm not sure the reasons. But she's got more than usual date/get together cancellations and less and less of trying to reschedule (Whenever she did cancel she was adamant about rescheduling)
>Got frustrated. Tried asking her that if she lost interest to just tell me.
>High school sports captain
>Parents push her to do 110%, she's told me it's very emotionally and mentally draining being under all the stress
>Has made plenty of shy attempts to see me/force interaction. Offering to come see me on my breaks at work and buy me a drink, etc.
>Never got past hugging her because she's never even hugged a guy before at that point, and kept telling me she's just shy. Never made the move to kiss her, it just didn't feel right if I couldn't even get a decent hug out of her. That and her being unnaturally shy, I wanted to stay away from pressuring her (Reminder that I REALLY cared about this girl, and didn't wanna fuck it up.)
>Eventually break things off, passive aggressively told her that if this isn't going anywhere, we should stop, that I've been trying but it doesn't seem to be going anywhere, and that I felt I was the only one really trying towards the last few months.She never really explained anything, other than that she was busy, but I feel for some reason there's more to it, as the way I look at it, if she wanted to make it work, we would have made it work, right?
I feel like an idiot for the whole thing, but I still care about her. I'm an hour and ten minute drive away, but I come back every week. She's going to college in our hometown. If she really DID care about me like she said, would it be worth to just try and talk to her again?