Be direct with long term crush or just cut contact?
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Been talking to long-term crush for few months. I'm really fed up with this relationship. It is a come and go. We talk, we go out, but beyond that, nothing.
Should I be direct with her? Completely tell her that I want to be with her and stuff or I should fade away completely and just loose all contact?
Why I'm not accepting this as a 100% rejection is that she always posts some rejection type photos when we aren't talking and if I respond to her signs, she contacts me, now she left me with an unresponded text mesaage.
I want to finish this, I'm getting way too attracted to her and I hate that
Tell her your feelings and if she says no, you can cut off contact if you choose to do so.
>>17290956
How do I do that? Text or taking her out? Never been in this situation before
Also, of course I'll cut contact after that, I'm not going more beta than thos
You have two choices - get the answer or torture yourself
Give it a shot - you dont have her now, if you fade away you wont have her - so it looks like the only other way to POSSIBLY make her yours is to let it out
Remember you might get crushed, or you might get what you want - be ready for either result
>>17290965
That is the thing. I want to tell her in such manner that won't be idiotic and cringy.
I dont know how to initiate this since we're not feely type of people and I really dont want to seem desperate
I can handle rejections, shit, I've been rejected all my life.
>>17290979
Then grab your pillow and tissues and live in Weepy Town Village
She might not be into you if you arent sparking her interest - that might not be your fault, it might just be that she isn't into you like that
Seeming desperate is a small part in "opening up" to someone else. If she dont care when you show some vulnerability, then you probably dont want her in the first place
