Why does a girl getting with strangers bother me so much?

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Why does a girl getting with strangers bother me so much? 2016-06-24 18:03:34 Post No. 17289054
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Why does a girl getting with strangers bother me so much? Anonymous 2016-06-24 18:03:34 Post No. 17289054 [Report]

I was talking with this girl I'm crushing on, and the topic came up of getting with (i.e. kissing/touching up - is 'getting with' a phrase that's used in the US? Anyway...) people in clubs. She's gotten with several guys in the past (but not slept with anyone except in an actual relationship); I've gotten with a few, but definitely fewer than her, although I have had some casual sex.

And the thought of her getting with these guys bothers me so much. Hypocritical, I know, since I've done it too, but the image of her with these guys in some club absolutely disgusts me, in a way I can't work out. Why? The thought of it in a relationship doesn't bother me, perhaps because there's love there. But the thought of her getting so physical so quickly with some stranger in a club... I don't know. Is it some ego thing? Do I feel threatened? Is it normal or am I fucked up psychologically? I don't know if there are any Freuds here but I'm really curious to find out what is going on here.

Pls no bullshit non-answers about her not being 'pure' that are based only on societal expectations

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Anonymous 2016-06-24 18:09:19 Post No.17289064
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Anonymous 2016-06-24 18:09:19 Post No.17289064 [Report]

Stop being a jealous asshole. Get over it fucking hypocrite. Maybe you do feel threatened but if she's going to be with you then just be confident that you're good enough. Are you worried about it happening again? Or that you're just another quick hookup. Either way you've gotta decide if you're going to trust her or not. I'd give her the benefit of the doubt because judging her for this that would be dumb shit

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Anonymous 2016-06-24 18:11:11 Post No.17289070
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Anonymous 2016-06-24 18:11:11 Post No.17289070 [Report]

>>17289054
Probably jealousy and double standard.

That's not abnormal, but it's not a positive either. Most people are good at rationalizing and excusing away their own behavior as ok but condemning the same thing in others.

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Anonymous 2016-06-24 18:18:57 Post No.17289087
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Anonymous 2016-06-24 18:18:57 Post No.17289087 [Report]

>>17289064
>>17289070

thanks for the replies, and yeah I feel bad because it's so hypocritical, but I still feel it

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Anonymous 2016-06-24 19:53:46 Post No.17289316
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Anonymous 2016-06-24 19:53:46 Post No.17289316 [Report]

Things like this bother me too anon, but it bothers me if men do it as well.

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Anonymous 2016-06-24 19:57:43 Post No.17289325
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Anonymous 2016-06-24 19:57:43 Post No.17289325 [Report]

just find someone who isn't a hoe, you hoe.

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Anonymous 2016-06-24 19:59:06 Post No.17289329
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Anonymous 2016-06-24 19:59:06 Post No.17289329 [Report]

>>17289054
it will literally never stop bothering you, just date pure girls

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Anonymous 2016-06-24 20:43:37 Post No.17289442
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Anonymous 2016-06-24 20:43:37 Post No.17289442 [Report]

>>17289325
>>17289329
Problem is finding a pure girl who will accept an impure guy.

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Anonymous 2016-06-24 20:49:11 Post No.17289459
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Anonymous 2016-06-24 20:49:11 Post No.17289459 [Report]

>>17289442
don't worry, pure girls usually don't like pure guys

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Anonymous 2016-06-24 20:59:19 Post No.17289484
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Anonymous 2016-06-24 20:59:19 Post No.17289484 [Report]

>>17289459
I have to completely disagree.