Is it normal for my 25 year old boyfriend of almost 3 years to only want sex like once or twice a week? It fucking kills me, since I'm only 21 and have an extremely high libido. We've probably had like 3 fights about this and nothing ever changes- he was a virgin before me so I don't get what his problem is. He'd rather watch Netflix for hours than do anything with me. I'm so resentful that even when we have sex I'm just pissed internally, like "oh you want it now? oh you only lasted 3 minutes? wow thanks I'm soo grateful". Is there anything that can be done to help boost his sex drive or make it happen more frequently or should we break up?
>>17285292
Well it looks like talking hasn't changed it. But you need to make it known that you have needs and if you aren't compatible it may be in your best interest to find someone who is.
If he has sex once or twice a week with two other plates as well, it's normal.
>>17285292
>lasting 3 minutes
Buy him Viagra, or dump him and get a man who can duck you well.
>>17285292
Maybe if you weren't seething with anger he'd probably want to hang out with and fuck you.
He probably does it twice a week just to get you to shut up about it.
>oh you only lasted 3 minutes?
It's probably because you're a scathing bitch.
>>17285335
Implying I'd say any of that irl retard. I'm probably the most supportive and loving gf ever, I honestly do nothing but build him up and love him. This post is a reflection of my frustrations and how I truly feel about things. It's difficult to ALWAYS be the one trying to fix things and try and make things better- wearing outfits he wants, doing his fetishes, buying toys/cock rings/different condoms for him, trying everything I can think of under the sun and nothing has improved. I'm even angrier having to defend myself when I've done nothing but TRY TRY TRY and all he does is put on the "sad booboo kitty" act like he has actually done anything to make it better. He won't stop watching porn, he won't stop jacking off, he won't see the doctor, he won't take viagra, so I don't know what else to do.
Like for example, we had the day off and went to the beach yesterday, came home and were watching Netflix. I try and kiss him and he will only give me a peck. I try and cuddle up to him and he only cares about the show. At night I say I'm going to bed early and ask if he wants to come cuddle and he would rather watch his show, and I go to bed alone. I'm just so tired of it
>>17285371
Get a new boyfriend. I dumped a girl once for lack of sex drive. I have needs and it will boil over eventually.
>>17285371
I'm 26 and could have sex multiple times a day. So come on down
>>17285371
God damn do I understand your pain OP. In the same fucking position.
Maybe you're being too overbearing. If I was a virgin and my gf loaded toys cock rings and every other deviant shit on me I'd have all kinds of thoughts going through my head. Maybe he doesn't like to be reminded of what you've done in the past, shit can be a massive turn off.
>>17285371
>I'm probably the most supportive and loving gf ever
You forgot "modest" .
Seriously. He's obviously not into you because you're trying too hard. Stop being clingy and take some time off. If that doesn't work then give it up.
Not everyone is affectionate in relationships.
>>17285399
This, sometimes people need space.
>>17285399
I am not overly affectionate. I really can't take your advice because it would mean, what? I don't fucking kiss him at all? I never hug him? We only kiss like once a day and only cuddle if we have sex, less than that is not acceptable. We don't even sit on the same couch when we hang out
This is making me realize we just have to break up
>>17285462
Do it then. He'd probably be happier this way.
