I saw a similar thread yesterday and I was reminded of my own fetish I want to get rid of. I'm a 20F here with a weight gain fetish (and generally chubby guys) this might sound like bait, but it seriously affects my sexual life as I'm only attracted to chubby guys. The only exception would be a really dominant guy because I'm into that as well. I can't masturbate to anything that's not weight gain related (like fics or deviantart shit. It's pretty embarrassing) and I masturbate 3 times a day which I think might be a lot, especially for a girl. Like I said I'm very embarrassed about it and I just want to move on about it. It's not really a big deal because my boyfriend is chubby himself (which isn't related to my kink- I'm not a chubby chaser and I didn't make him gain weight).
I'm pretty sure it must be related to my own weight, since I'm 5'4 and weigh 92 lbs. I don't look anorexic or anything, and I do eat a lot, but I think that might be the reason. When I was younger (like, 7-9?) the doctor sent me to a special place where I got fed for lunch because he said I was too skinny and that was going to kill me. I wonder if that's what caused it since I was forced to eat more and rewarded if I did. I'm not necessarily into forcefeeding though- just anything that produces weight gain.
So, what would the solution be? I don't want to be so obsessed with this one thing. I feel it's going to ruin my sexual life.
Same boat but I'm a dude. I'm just trying to keep it out of mt head as much as possible. I'm hoping I can revert since my gf is petite and I wouldn't want to put her through that.
>>17278816
Most peoples sex lives are ruined by being attracted to something they CANT have. Count your blessings tbhfam.
>>17278816
>I masturbate 3 times a day which I think might be a lot, especially for a girl
Just going to chime in that I'm also a girl and I consider 3+ times a day normal for me.
>>17278852
I mean, honestly, I come more than 3 times a day, sometimes I've reached twenty times because I come easily. But I start workin' on it 3 times a day.
>>17278844
Dude it's not just a "I prefer people with curves :3" thing, if that's what you're talking about. It's just not the same scenario as prefering a certain bodytype. I get turned on by fat-related crap like huge bellies and all that sick shit and I depend on that. Thank god my boyfriend actually doesn't mind that much and does some of the things I ask.
>>17278838
Tbh I don't think it would be bad for her health to gain some weight, people that are just moderately/slightly overweight don't have health problems. I mean, I don't want to make my bf go through it too (but to be fair, he's already chubby). But you could ask her. Just don't fuck up with her health. Are you doing anything to fix it? A while ago ignoring it worked well but now that someone brought it up I can't.
>>17278958
She's like 5'2" so she could probably gain ~30lbs and still be "healthy". I wouldn't want her to get huge, just gain enough to be nice and curvy.
By ignoring it I mean abstaining from external sources. Like no porn or anything related to it. I'm hoping if this goes on long enough I'll just not have it anymore.
You should channel that desire inward and gain weight yourself, mutual weight gain is always the best.
>>17279081
Nah dude don't want to do that to my health or his health. And for some reason I feel terrible when I gain weight, because the rest of me stays really skinny to the point it's ugly and my stomach looks all swollen. It feels physically bad.
>>17279067
Tell her that, maybe she won't mind. And I wish I could do that, but I enjoy masturbating and I don't think I'd be able to without it, sadly. I ignored it for around 2 or 3 years, forgetting its existence, but when I got reminded of it it was even stronger than I remember it, so maybe ignoring it won't work.
>>17279088
Yeah i feel like ignoring it won't be good enough. We'll see though; at the very least, it's giving me time to focus on other things.
This woman is my best friend in life. We know so much about each other, but I don't know if I'm ready to tell her. It's probably because that's admitting that it's here to stay and I want to keep fighting it.
yooooo that's so funny I'm a 22F and I've had a wg fetish since I was like 15 lol. I'm straight (more or less) and skinny but only seem to like it on girls ¯\_(ツ)_/¯. Anyway I used to be kind of ashamed of it and tried to train myself out of it, etc but eventually I just realized that it isn't the end of the world if I like to get off to weird stuff sometimes. I found that once I wasn't making a big deal about it, my urge to watch wg stuff wasn't nearly as bad (though I still do like once or twice a week). 3X a day is plenty, but within the normal range, especially coming out of your teenage years. The further I get into my twenties, the less horny I am in general, so the fetish stuff just isn't as intense/frequent anymore.
tl;dr: Don't worry about it too much; nearly everyone has some weird kinks and what you like to jack off to doesn't really have any effect on the rest of your life.
>>17279100
I told my boyfriend months ago and I was just as scared and he laughed at me because he thought it's not that much and that it's cute I think that's embarrassing. Might be the same for you. If you trust each other it shouldn't be a problem.
>>17279122
This is actually very good advice. Thank you.
>>17279176
Damn it, I came to this thread hoping to get rid of this and now I'm trying to rationalize it and find a way to bring it up.
Time to embrace being a sexual deviant.
>>17279194
I mean, like the other anon said, maybe you should accept it and go on. I know not everyone that has this fetish acts upon it and gains weight or makes their bf/gf gain weight (which is what worries me the most about it), so you just have to know how to control it and enjoy it thinking of it just as a fantasy, I guess.
>save before and after pictures of weight loss people
>flip the pictures around
i just made you cum like a million times for the next few months
>>17279232
Nah if I admitted this I already know I'd try to talk my girlfriend into gaining weight.
>>17280434
Well, then, at least make sure she's okay with it and that she doesn't go into an unhealthy territory.
That really isn't that bad of a fetish. That's really "normal" as far as fetishes go. So is the getting dominated thing.
Masturbate as much as you want.
>>17279067
>>17278958
>moderately/slightly overweight don't have health problems
They do if they combine it with heavy drinking, as I found out
In any case I'm still skinnyfat after a year of dieting and losing 23 pounds since last June and it pisses me off, I guess you have a fetish for people who are overweight but you severely underestimate how much extra fat on your body deforms the shape even if you're at a "healthy" weight
please love me :( im chibby as hell. i need a girlfriend so bad im so close to killing myself
>>17278816
>the doctor sent me to a special place
Wut
This sounds roughly 380% creepy
>>17281274
>please love me :( im chibby as hell. i need a girlfriend so bad im so close to killing myself
She has a boyfriend, you chibby autist
>>17281266
This.
I'm a furfag and the only people that dislike me for it, already disliked me.
>I can only be with chubby guys
There is no problem here.
>>17281290
>furnigger complaining about fursecution and how everyone else views him as normal
The reason no one likes furries is their need to force their fetish into everything and try to normalize it
It will never be normal, just fucking stop trying to make us accept it
>>17281279
I'm not english, I don't know the word for it, it's called a "Comedor de la Cruz Roja" I think. It's not that weird really.
>>17281266
For some reason I've always felt very creepy and wrong for liking it. I know it's not that bad, but I hate enjoying it. And I do know getting dominated isn't bad, I don't mind that one at all. I just don't want to let the fetish grow and end up looking like a whale or some shit like that.
>>17281272
I don't understand what you meant with this. Do you think I care how much it deforms the shape? That's what turns me on, I couldn't care less about how you feel about being overweight. Or are you saying it's still super unhealthy even if you're just moderately overweight but drink? Because in that case I wouldn't have a problem. My boyfriend doesn't drink and I don't want him to gain weight anyway.
>>17281274
jesuschrist
>>17281108
Well yeah, I'm not gonna lace her food or some shit.
>>17281272
This is also the turn on. Again, my gd is petite at around ~100lbs. It would take considerable weight gain for her to be unhealthy. Plus, if I did have her gain weight I'd have her work out as well so the she'd have some muscle underneath making her look bigger.
>>17281488
Oye OP, where are you from?
>>17281558
Spain (cádiz)
>>17281627
Damn, I was gonna say if you were from SA I'd wonder if there were something more to it.
Ah well, guess it's just a fetish like any other.
>>17281636
Like, as if it's related to being south american? I doubt so. It seems like a pretty general fetish. I wonder if there are culture-specific fetishes though.
>>17281488
>>17281558
There's a point where a fetish turns into a light mental illness and I think this might be it
You're advocating your significant other should become unhealthy because you want to fuck. There are a zillion fatties out there now- mexico, the uk, america- how do you end up dating a thin person when you're attracted to fat people? Just date one of the many loveless wonders on 4chan who whine about how being a fatass impairs their ability to get laid.
>>17281654
For a woman that is 5'2", weighing ~130 is not unhealthy. On top of that I even said how we would work out so she'd have some hidden muscle to actually keep her in shape.
Unless you're confusing me for OP.
>>17281645
Im sure some fetishes are more prevalent in some cultures, but I was just wondering if this was one of them.
>>17281654
My boyfriend already is a chubby guy on 4chan
And it's exactly the problem I've been talking about- I don't want to let it get out of control and make my bf get even fatter (or maybe, even myself, but I suspect I wouldn't be able to gain a lot. I already eat WAY too much)
Or maybe you're talking about the other anon. Well, if she wants to I don't see the problem. A lil fat sure isn't going to hurt her, many overweight people don't have health problems. It is true that most obese people do, though. And not dating someone because they're thin is kind of superficial.
>>17278816
Wish I knew.
I've been trying to lick my girls ass for ages and I just cant make any progress, nor can I kill my urge.
>>17281677
Have you tried talking about it?
As a girl myself I'd be kind of grossed out I guess. But I wouldn't say no I think. I do find it kind of unhygienic (is it?)
>>17281665
>>17281671
Being overweight at any age is a bad idea because of the sheer number of fatal diseases associated with being at an unhealthy weight. You also have to take into consideration that the older you get the more difficult it is to lose weight and the more likely it is you'll end up fatter and it ends up severely shortening your lifespan.
Someone like Trigglypuff isn't going to live past 50 and that's taking into account modern technological advances designed to keep beings which are fundamentally broken in terms of physical health alive.
When we look at your fetish it isn't just a fetish you have for personally gaining weight but a fetish you have for others, meaning you're avoiding health problems but encouraging others to acquire those health problems instead.
>>17281694
OP here. Dude trigglypuff is fucking obese, not overweight. And I could consider gaining weight myself which I don't want to. When I say overweight I'm talking about something like this.
>>17281684
Yes. She does it to me without me asking but won't let me do it to her.
> kind of grossed out I guess
Feels good. Better than getting your balls licked IMO.. Not that you can relate to that..
>>17281694
You aren't even reading the posts. She's borderline underweight so I'd have her gain weight until she was at the maximum healthy weight (not maximum for overweight going into obesity).
I'm the same as OP in terms of preference. I'm thinking to have her like >>17281719 except she has a nice bubble butt so that would be amazing.
DAMN IT OP WHY'D YOU HAVE TO MAKE THIS THREAD?
I won't see my gf for a couple of days and now this is all i can think about. I'm getting that warm butterfly turned on feeling just thinking about it.
