Is he avoiding me or is it just him?
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I have this friend that I sort of look up to and have a little crush on. He always helps me out when I ask him for help but when it comes to hanging out he never follows up. He always says stuff like, "we should do this/that" or "let's plan to hang out next week" and always says "we definitely will" but like the day before he'll say something came up.
He has apologized for being flakey. I wasn't sure why, as I brushed it off. told him don't worry about it.
As of recent though it makes me feel like he is purposefully avoiding me. We play games together sometimes, two days ago he came on to play, said to wait ten minutes and he never came back.
He answers my texts/msgs sometimes more than other times.
I just don't understand the behavior. Why would he help me out, claim to want to hang out but always cancel?
A long time ago he said he had pretty bad anxiety, but I thought when he said "had", that it was in the past.
I'm a girl btw
>>17277148
Tell him to stop being a little bitch and pound your tight pussy like a real man
>>17277154
not relevant
>>17277164
I just want to hang out m8,a little crush doesn't mean a hookup.
shameless self bump
>>17277148
Honestly, sounds like he just doesn't see you in the same light. He probably inconsequentially just says "let's hang out" and the like just like all of us say out of politeness. He also apologized for being flakey, so you can just as easily assume he didn't think these propositions to be a big issue, or just simply forgot about it. Sounds like he's either too laid back or you're far more into him than he's into you.
Nothing will be clear until you walk up to him and plainly ask him what you're asking here.
>>17277167
it is
>>17277186
He doesn't have to be into me to hang out as a friend, that's all I want. I was thinking maybe he did it out of politeness but you're right I should ask him.
>vegan
probably doesnt want to deal with your PC bullshit. do this, stop fucking a fucking retarded idealist, try again. good luck!