Need help analysing social interaction with female friend
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>Met girl through anonymous chat app approx. 9 months ago
>She was going through a rough breakup with her ex-FWB, then boyfriend
>We hang out a lot, she stays the night a few times (cuddling in bed, no sex/kissing, etc.)
>Talk a few times every week
>Hang out together occasionally, e.g. see movies, have dinner together, hang out in the car talking for hours on end
>When it's time to part ways we hug, always a long hug
>Says ily (but specifies that it's platonically)
She doesn't have a boyfriend right now, not sure if she's looking for one, based on the fact that she likes to fuck with people on tinder (leading them on), and worked as an escort for a while. Our relationship as friends was forged during times of adversity for both of us, and introspectively I feel like we use each other as emotional rocks to cling on to when things get bad and I'm not too sure how natural our relationship is as a result of that, either.
Personally, I don't think she's interested, but I could be wrong. What do you anons think?
>>17274119
Don't bother, she is just using you for emotional support as you said.
>>17274119
>she likes to fuck with people on tinder (leading them on), and worked as an escort for a while.
Yeah... even if she did have any interest in dating you, that'd be a huge red flag. But no, it's best that you assume you're eternally friendzoned. Sounds like you have a nice friendship going though. Don't fuck that up.
>>17274135
Mhm, I guess I'm just concerned about whether or not she's into me, because I don't want her to eventually end up resenting me for not being romantically interested in her. I've already got a girlfriend, and I don't really see her as girlfriend material for so many reasons.
Thanks anon.
>>17274139
she is not into you OP