>>17272281

>how do you know if a girls feelings for you are genuine

you dont really. you can hope that something tragic happens and its put to the test but its hard to know how much what you provides can outweigh. we dont know what utility you speak of so its hard to gauge in general.

ultimately it doesnt much matter. people act like theres only true love, and using people. its not always the case. people often fall in love with their rapist because of a hormone released during sex.

everyone just so happens to love their mother as long as shes ont the worst human being, and same goes for children.

love is complex and even if its forced by circumstance (like a girl getting with you because of what you can provide) it doesnt mean she cant ALSO love you. it doesnt mean she cant love you for the great support you gave her.

some people might see that as wrong, but they arent as morally upright as they like to think they are, no one is. the feelings are what matter, even if you had to coax it out of them. it doesnt mean the feelings dont develop.

it may never be pure disney love that developed just from looking at you, but thats more rare than anyone can say. people often fall in love because of the kind of life they build together, how it fits and what hte ydo for each otehr. whats wrong if providing a certain 'utility' is a part of that?

>>17272302
What's wrong with it is that it seems cheap and easily replaceable in my opinion. And of it's cheap and easily replaceable how valuable can it really be?

>>17272379

people like to think that their love is special, that they just happened to be living in the same fucking town as the one person in the world who could understand and love them.

then they think ths ame thing for their next date, and the next one and the next one.

all boys love their moms, all girls love their dads, all people love their partner and think its the OTP, the destiny.

consider the following: if you actually had her develop genuine feelings and not JUST using you, that may be more special then people who randomly fall in love.

it means she truly understands and appreciates what you did for her so much that she loves you for that kind of generosity. she loves you because of how much you lvoe her.

or just whine and dump her or something i dont know

>>17272281
Well right out the bat you should avoid single mothers because most of them are looking for a meal ticket or girls who are high maintenance. It will cost you a lot if you date them. You should try to aim for girls who are low maintenance and who dont feel entitle to your wallet