Becoming an alpha
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How do i stop being a beta and start fucking some bitches, need some legit advice, i have female friends, but i fear aproaching girls at parties and bars for some reason. Im 19 atm and a virgin, haven't even kissed a girl yet.
>>17270540
You start by realizing that the "beta vs alpha" thing is total bullshit.
Be confident in yourself.
Find things you're good at and do them.
Everything else will fall into place.
Girls are not all the same, but they tend to like to feel special, not "some bitches".
>>17270571
The complete opposite is true. Women like to prove that they are special, not being told.
>>17270584
Who said to tell them?
>>17270591
You implied that you should make her feel special. You shouldn't. She should. You should make it hard for her to make herself feel special.
>>17270604
That may be too advanced for OP.
>>17270570
I have a friend who is ugly af and is always scoring, you wouldn't believe the girls he fucks, most of them 10's and 9's, he seems very confident and always encourages me to pick up girls, but i fear rejection a lot it just ruins the rest of my day when i get rejected, and that happens quite often because of my shitty aproaches.
>>17270607
But if he tries to make her feel special, he will have the opposite result.
>>17270612
Perhaps, but he has to indicate his interest in one first.
>>17270620
Yes but you can't do that in a desperate way if you want to score.
>>17270636
Of course.
>>17270540
>being alpha
>putting your virginity on pedestal so much you call women 'bitches'
Yeah I think you have some other things to work on first before you want to be 'alpha', whatever that means.
>>17270641
Perhaps he means I have to be a little cocky.
