I started talking to a girl and it's headed in the direction of relationship, but I don't know if I like her that much. She's nice enough, and real cute.
But I find that I doze off a lot when she's talking. Her family's fucked up, but so is mine. And she's younger so she's crazy about drinking, and I'm kind of over it already.
I feel like I'm always picking out negative shit for a reason to not go through with something. Am I being unreasonable in feeling this way?
Yeah, just do it.
There'll be a chance that the negative shit outweighs the positive, but what if it doesn't? You could've struck gold and narrowly missed out on it. There'll always be a chance negative shit happens, but there are tricks to tilt the odds in your favour. And being risk-averse is not one of them.
If you're having doubts like this before it even begins, don't do it. A bad relationship is NOTHING but stress. Just walk away and keep looking
Honestly, don't get yourself into something you're not 100% sure about. You'll start feeling guilty and the girl will soon clock that you're not into it as much as she is. That will lead to a fucked situation full of drama and general shit which you don't need in your life. I'd try and slowly get out of there without too much fallout - you don't wanna waste your time with girls who you don't think are the absolute shit. Hope it all goes alright for you
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always take chances like this when you have them. you won't regret life experience with girls dude
