Hey im just a little confused. Im a decently attractive, humorus guy who makes enough money to not worry about stuff. I just dont understand how to relate to girls. I get nervous and feel stupid, when i talk to girls i like. Anything to fix this?
Don't put them on a pedestal. They are people just like you.
>>17267277
I just forget what to say, like forgetting lines in a play
>>17267298
Because you put them on a pedestal. Stop glorifying them and stop thinking of communicating with girls as some huge challange. Focus on what you want to say, not who you are talking to.
>>17267310
Thanks for the advice!
Did you have some bad experience with girls?
Read the free ebook The Flinch.
That feeling you describe is exactly what the book deals with.
>>17267340
More like i just dont have any experience at all, as i never bothered caring about this stuff until college
>>17267349
Ill definitley check it out!
Also ill try to treat girls i like as regular friends, maybe thatll change my mentality
A few complaments here and there can help out as well. Tell them they are looking nice and such. It's not much but it might help. Good luck OP
>>17267371
Are you a girl?
>>17267371
I always thought it was considered cringey, so i always just compliment what they do, like their drawings and stuff. This is probably a really stupid question, what do you consider a good compliment?
>>17267340
Not OP, but I do.
What should I do ?
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