ditch or fuck and ditch
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Today's been a weird day /adv/
>just came back from a short trip to London
>get text from my gf of two years
>"I slept with Elin".
>Elin is a friend whom she's been getting along nicely during the last year
>met gf through Elin, and we've had our share flirty moments
>she is also a solid 9.5/10
>gf is a 8/10
>talked shortly with gf on the phone
>i just said "I had a long day, i'll call you soon"
Honestly, I don't know if i'm even mad. Don't know if it's the lack of sleep. My head says I should just not care and dump her, but it hardly feels like cheating. My dick says I could morbidly turn this into a revenge gulilty-driven threesome fuck fest and dump her nevertheless, as I wouldn't trust her anyway.
Thoughts?
>>17266229
id do it. theres no reason not to. i wouldnt even call it vindictive. id just be like 'hey if oyu get to sleep with elin we should both get to sleep with elin'.
then afterwards say its all fucked up and not gonna work anymore.
>>17266229
The "right" thing to say here would definitely be "even if you're okay with your girlfriend sleeping with other girls, doing it behind your back without consulting you first was a betrayal, and it shows she's untrustworthy, so you should dump her anyway."
So my Official Stated Position is that you should do that.
That said, I really just wouldn't give a shit if my girlfriend "cheated" on me with another girl, provided it didn't cut into our sex life together and she was open to the possibility of a threesome (largely because fairness is important to me and it'd bother me if she was a hypocrite about it). So if you want to just say "fuck it" and forgive her and let things settle back to normal and then maybe try and fuck Elin, I absolve you.
That's definitely Bad Advice, but it's what I'd do in your situation.
>>17266265
just what i thought leading to this post
>>17266299
there's definitely a possibility of a threesome. we've talked about it a few times but never found a third one who could fill that role. so it got me thinking.
>>17266229
>Right, mature thing to do:
Dump her right now.
>Immature thing to do:
Try to have a threesome and then dump her.
I if I was in your place, I'd probably go with the latter. Y'know, have a revenge fuck and then dump her.
