when I talk about being a loner and wanting a life and a shit
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when I talk about being a loner and wanting a life and a shit people always say "go outside"
"go outside" - as if that's helpful
what the fuck does that even mean. I know what it literally LITERALLY means. heck I'm outside right now posting from my patio. But that's clearly not what people mean when they say that.
I need explicit instructions on what "go outside" involves.
Go to gym and if you are worried do these first:https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=v80p4vSxfRI
>>17257038
I'm already in decent shape.
are you supposed to meet friends at gyms or something?
>>17257044
Well just the exercise itself will make you feel better. Then yes if you want you can make friends. Also there's a bit of socialization that happens by working out while others are doing the same.
>>17257029
Step away from the computer. Engage with real life.
Someone suggested going to a gym, and you replied that you're already in good shape. You're missing the point entirely. The suggestion was to re-enter the social world. Go where there are people and it is relatively easy to chat with them. Make acquaintances and from them make friends. Get a life that is not conducted entirely through a keyboard.
That's what everyone is suggesting.
The point is people aren't magically going to come to you if you're inside all day. If you want to meet people you need to go to a place where other people exist. Parties, bars, etc. Go to your friend's house. Find a meetup online. Get a job. Or talk with a coworker more often and becomes friends with him.
Hey op. Go to a gaming place, library, a concert, whatever it is, talk to some random people and for all you know you will make friends, a wife or husband, or best friends or whatever