Be honest with her about your feelings. The key to a good outcome in any relationship is openness. Ask her if she's alright, tell her the vibes you've been getting, and tell her how you feel. There's clearly some tension there, and if you take the initiative and be open, she'll respond with openness too. Then, you'll have your answer.
Go text her now, OP. Text the lady you fancy, and connect again

>>17249685
She says everything is fine, she just isnt ready for something serious.
But she doesnt want to cease dating exclusively either. I offered her the way out and to come back when shes ready, but she doesnt want to do that.

>>17249702
Hmm, that's interesting. She sounds a bit confused. I've been in that kind of situation before. She could just be scared of commitment, but hey, what do I know? I'm just an anon on an imageboard.
If she doesn't want something serious, but wants to be exclusive, then what does that make you two?

>>17249718
I guess dating buddies? Not sure. But it feels pretty damn one sided.
If we dont talk unless i initiate conversation, its kinda silly.

>>17249722
Giving her the benefit of the doubt, I'm sure she has some stuff to think about. Girls don't lead people on "on purpose". I guess the proper thing to do is giving her some space to sort out her feelings. She'll come to you eventually. And if she doesn't well... you will have your answer. In one form or another.

>>17249737
This is kinda what i settled on. If she wants me, she'll come to me. Im not gonna keep this relationship alive by myself and will let it die if I must

>>17249740
Yea, life is too short to worry about things beyond your locus of control. Good luck m8

>>17249767
thanks bud, appreciate your time

>>17249661
This also pertained to me closely. Thanks mates