>got into a misunderstanding with girl I liked
>we used to be friends
>blocked me on FB, the works
>told her friends about it and now they hate me too
>she went away for training camp, won't be seeing her for months
>another guy friend of hers also likes her
>saw them in a photo in my friend's FB together
>getting teased my all my ex-friends
>heard the other day the guy's sending her stuff at her place or something
I utterly don't know how to feel. I'm floored.
>>17242917
How did you fuck up enough to get her to block you and all her friends to hate you?
>>17243000
I was getting weird likes from her FB account appearing on my feed. Links to somewhat porn articles.
Stupidly enough, I told her about it through FB than in person. Sent screenshots. She told me I was a pervert.
I tried explaining to her several times but she wouldn't listen.
>>17243030
Awwww I see, simple mistake. It's ogre man, pick up some improvement hobbies to keep you busy, and im sorry.
>>17243147
Well, she's a work friend so I'm forced to interact with her.
Also, we used to be pretty close. We've been on several group outings together.
bump for feels
>>17242917
Sounds like you have operation northwoods on your hands
>>17243751
A what?
>>17243757
Operation Northwoods was a plan for the CIA to cause terroist attacks in the US and frame Cuba and then go to war with Cuba. Basically the friend baites OP and made him look like the bad guy to get rid of him to please her friends. Or chad thundercock....
never give a fuck about a bitch
It's just a shitty situation OP.
My advice, tell her the next time you see her that you had no intention of being a pervert anything of the sort, but you only wished to bring it to her attention.
Tell her that she is free to make up her mind, and if she still chooses to hate you, then so be it. Tell her that it will be one sided and you will still maintain a high regard for her.
Then treat her like a coworker, nothing more.
>>17243774
I got the pics from her account. Really, my fault is that I talked to her over chat about it rather than in person.
>>17243844
Yeah but, man, thinking about how messed up this situation is + another guy making moves on her while I can't do a damn thing is just killing me.
It's like, unfair.
>>17243860
It is unfair, it truly is.
I have been in similar situations. My response? Don't let it get the best of me.
You cannot control what she thinks. Or what he does. You can only control how you react. Now you can choose to worry or you can choose to move on.
By all means, come here to vent. But understand that if you and her were meant to be, then you would have been.
My prescription: Start meditating. It will clear bad thoughts up, and give you a fresher outlook. Start lifting if you don't already. Make yourself into the person you have been wishing to become.
And she will regret that she ever wronged you.
>>17243878
G-Goddamn Virgil.
But I can't get over her. I'm a really picky guy. I'm 27 and I've never had a gf. I've waited a long, long time for her. It hurts like hell.
>>17243889
That's her. She is pretty anon.
This is going to hurt. Badly. You'll probably cry, and it'll tear you up inside every time you see her. But someday, this pain will be useful to you. Pain is good, it teaches you things. This will weigh heavy upon your soul.
You're gonna carry that weight.
>>17243935
>She is pretty anon.
Gorgeous. And can sing.
>>17244361
There's a reason you are 27 and never had a gf. You have a bitch mentality.
>>17244443
How so?
I worked hard through college and have a good career.
>>17243889
>I've waited a long, long time for her.
That's something a serial killer says, dude.
>>17244361
Well she wouldn't play an instrument because she's dumb as a brick.
>>17242917
this girl sounds like an unreasonable and prude-ish cunt. Without accepting an explanation she just turned on you like that?? You're better off. You don't need a person that can so easily write you off.
You've fixated on this cunt and you're not going to see the value in anyone else until you stop. And- be less picky. Go more by whether or not someone is an asshole.
>>17244963
Actually, we're both in the same technical field.
>>17244917
Or just someone really picky. I've literally waited for a girl like her. I've got nothing to pick on her apart from being really easy to scare off but then I was the one who started the mess.
I'm just terribly sad is all. So I guess I am venting but I still haven't given up so I'm still looking for ways to fix this.
>>17244977
She's incredibly nice irl. She was the one who tried to make friends with me. She's friends with everybody.
