Damn /adv/
>be me
>have female friend
>develop somewhat or a crush on her
>don't act on it since I want to keep the friendship
>in the last few weeks we got really close, joke about marrying each other if we haven't found anyone by 30
>start to think I could have a chance
>she had a date with some guy yesterday
Why does it hurt so much all of a sudden? It wasn't like that when she wasn't seeing anyone.
>be me
>have female friend
>female friend
>friend
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Tell her if she doesn't feel the same then sure that sucks but if she does then at least you'll know
>>17240597
Lel
its just a date, m8. You can still try to get with her.
Why would trying to make her your gf even ruin the friendship? I never got that. Then again i dont have a ton of female friends.
>>17240570
my guess is youre upset because youre insecure and feel like shes the only female that you were even close to dating. now youre right back to square one with nothing to show for it and some other guy got the date that you worked for.
my best advice is to do something to gain self confidence and quit talking to this girl. or at the very least put a lot of distance between you. she probably doesnt see you as anything more than a guy to fill the time with between boyfriends and will just keep acting this way.
then again, most of this is just a guess without much background.
>>17240669
This guy knows what's up OP. She definitely suspects you like her but she's refusing to go further since she thinks it might jeopardize your friendship.
>>17240669
Nice guess, probably would have said the same, but for as long as I've known her (2 years) she hasn't had a boyfriend, also we didn't get close until 2 months ago.
