What would you say counts as loosing your virginity.
I'm female who got into a relationship with another girl out of high school. We did have sex, but there was no PiV penetration because, well, there was no penis.
We broke up and I ended up having sex with a guy. Plenty of penis there. Now my question is when can I say I lost my virginity? Did I loose it to my ex gf, or did it not count for loosing my virginity until I had an actual penis inside of me?
it's whatever you want it to be dear
>>17236804
Probably lost it when you pulled the trigger
>>17236804
The actual definition is penis to vaginal penetration, so technically you lost your virginity to your boyfriend. That saif, virginity is just a concept invented by humans and really doesn't matter.
There's no clear definition for virginity that we can use to resolve this case. I think the majority of people would agree that sex doesn't need need to involve penetration with a penis in order to count as losing your virginity. Personally I would say you lost your virginity with the girl but you're the one who is better placed to decide.
Depends.
If you're just asking how to consider it for yourself then it's up to you.
If you're asking because you are talking to someone else about it then you would want to say that you lost it to the girl, as when most people ask "when/how did you lose your virginity" they really mean "what was your first sexual experience with another person?"
