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2016-06-06 20:49:55 Post No. 17227509
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2016-06-06 20:49:55
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Am I being a buzzkill or am I doing the right thing?
For the past six years, my friends and I have done a 4th of July beach vacation at our friend's condo. We want one of our best friends to come that hasn't made it in the past couple of years. But, my friend always has me make the arrangements for the trip for her. Its her parents' place, and they have a limit on how many people are allowed to come. There's a front desk person and cameras - we can't just let anyone in.
I cannot get this guy to commit to the trip. He's whining that we want to fly. His friend is "bringing a cute girl to town" that weekend. He wants to know why we "really" need to know right now and why he can't just say yes or no a few days before the trip.
His spot could be filled by someone else. We need to make plane reservations, because we don't want to drive. The girl who owns the condo has given me 100% control of all plans and all invites, but people are anxious to book flights because we're less than a month away and they're getting expensive.
Am I a dick if I tell him the offer for him to come on the trip is revoked and we're going to take someone else or possibly not even fill his spot, but he's out?