No, it's not because i can't do any better (my 1st gfs were all skinny),it's not because of my self esteem(i'm pretty okay with myself), and it's not because i'm unattractive(i'm in now way saying i'm some stud, i am of average height-size-looks for a man of my age). I genuinely am more attracted to larger woman then smaller ones.
Though just because i like bigger woman dosn't mean that i will automatically like you if you're fat,(the fat has to proportioned the right way or else they just look like troll-blobs) the same goes for me not automatically hating skinny girls because they are skinny (they have to have a nice face and personality if they are ugly to me and or have garbage personality it's an instant turn off)
If i were to explain my attraction it would go like this: I'm more attracted to skinny girls for their mind and personality, while fatter girls it's more carnal and lust driven. For instance, in the title pic i would be more driven to engaging the women on the middle right and the middle left than the middle one and the far left one (Though a wouldn't be complaining if i was with the far right one thats for sure). I guess it's because larger woman have there more feminine figures pronounced but i'm not really sure. (So if i find a chubby girl with the right shape and great personality then i'm golden). Of course i like the body types in between but i'm just a sucker for a nice thick girl.
My attraction has always perplexed me because the way i was brought up i should hate fat girls. My friends would make fun of me if they thought i liked one, tv shows would always portray fat girls as lesser, even my mom wouldn't hesitate to show her dislike of other fat woman and their weight. Yet here a am, a closet Chubby Hunter.
So Anons, any insight? When ever i look up this topic the answer i always get is that it's just my personal taste, but that answer seems kinda cheap to me, but yeah, what say anons?
>>17222791
Because you're a fucking faggit.
You need to stop.
A girl like this is right up my alley to be honest
>>17222794
Did Daisuke Toriyama Iwata Sensei censor faggot now?
Please tell me that's just a typo.
>>17222794
If it's okay to shame people for their desires, then I get to shame you for NOT wanting to fuck hambeasts and dangerhairs. :^) if you're attracted to women you're attracted to me now get over it
>>17222791
>No, it's not because i can't do any better (my 1st gfs were all skinny),it's not because of my self esteem(i'm pretty okay with myself), and it's not because i'm unattractive(i'm in now way saying i'm some stud, i am of average height-size-looks for a man of my age).
This is literally why. Have some self respect you fucking mong
>>17222800
Ohey, just a typo. Whew.
>>17222801
well, watever, its ur life brodudemansirmisterduke.
Clearly, you need no advice or insights, so case closed.
>>17222806
>you
Your answer plainly shows how ignorant you are
I have thia risky theory that we are entering a new era. There have always been times where bigger girls have been the ideal, followed by the ideal of being skinny. It has been quiet a while now since bigger girls where "it". Might be that the focus is shifting again. To me, skinny girls are so plain and average, very boring. There's something exciting about fat females.
In your case it actually sounds like you are rebelling against your mom and the values you were brought up with. The world told you to not like fatties, you're the salmon going against the stream and instead like what you weren't supposed to.
>>17222844
>To me, skinny girls are so plain and average, very boring. There's something exciting about fat females.
Care to explain?
>>17222859
Everybody wants to lose weight and be skinny. Every girl you see that has an ounce of confidence is skinny. I think girls with some fat (we're talking about chubby, NOT fat), who actually pull it off are superior, just because of the novelty.
>>17222856
Thats the thing, i would be happy if fat girls were the considered the "right thing"
There have been a few times when i first started dating that i had to give up on a potential relation ship because of the stigma of dating "fatties". Even to this day i'm annoyed that most people see it as my not being able to do any better instead of my genuine attraction
Woe is me
I've dated a few chubby chicks and had a relationship with one.
In each of these cases I was never attracted to their size, i just liked them enough to look past it.
Fat girl sex is horrible. She is sweaty, her pussy isn't tight and she can't ride for very long. The sex drive just isn't there compared to normal women. I just ended up feeling sorry for them, and it just made me sad and unhappy.
So yeah, I look down on people who seek fat girls to date purely to satisfy their messed up fetish, it's not good for anyone. Its not real love.
>>17222870
>messed up fetish
Okay, carnal lust was a bad way to put it.
I was just trying to say that i have a legitamate attraction to them. I don't have feederism or anything, i just like the shape more than skinny girls. Also girls on the obese side are just as unattractive to me as skinny girls.
>No, it's not because i can't do any better
Way to give yourself away within the first 10 words. You can't do any better.
Maybe you are just attracted to those huge tits and curves?
>>17222844
>bigger girls have been the ideal
Protip: This isn't true.
You can try to throw out the same tired 5 examples of fat naked women in classical paintings, but for every one you give me, I can give you a hundred where the subject is actually a thin, gorgeous woman instead of a lardo.
>>17222791
Lol you fucking loser
>i am of average height-size-looks for a man of my age
You can't do any better
To top it all of you are on fucking 4chan yous stupid cunt.
>>17222844
>There's something exciting about fat females.
My god
This fucking site
>I have thia risky theory
Jesus christ that has got to be the stupidest thing I have ever read
Who fucking says this kind of shit? Honestly
How are you this removed from reality.
>>17222930
>way to give yourself away
All the stuff i siad in the beginning was just common things people say to chubby chasers. I was adressing them before you could.
>no it's not because i have low self-esteem
By your logic that automatical means i have cripplingly low self-esteem, which i simply don't have. I just a guy who likes his woman thick, that confuses you so you make bad argument's like that to make yourself feel better
>>17222958
lol
>>17222958
>I don't have low self-esteem
Then why did you make this thread searching for validation for your sexual preferences?
>Trying to flip the script and insinuate that I am the insecure one in order to protect yourself from the accusation
You're terrible at this, truly.
>>17222813
See, it's not so fun when people try to force you to feel attracted to things you don't want, now isn't it? Retard.
>>17222964
>Then why did you make this thread searching for validation for sexual preferences?
Validation? Anon, im gunna be chasing chubbies till the end of time. I just thought some one intelligent could give me some insight into why i'm like this because people like you renforce how mike of an anomalie i am
>trying to flip the script
Lol,wut? Anon, I like genuinely like fat woman and i want some insight. You think my attraction hinges on [insert anything alse here], i'm just saying it ain't so.
>>17222984
You can deny it all you want but your posts tell an entirely different story. You're just a faggot with low self-esteem that can't get attractive women. That's pretty much all this boils down to.
>>17222984
>I just thought some one intelligent
Then why the FUCK did you FUCKING ASK THIS ON FUCKING 4CHAN?
>>17222972
How fucking fat are you? kek
>>17222989
>your a faggot who can't get attractive woman
This is what happens when people utterly miss the point.
1.I think fat woman are attractive
2.i am 100% aware of how taboo that is and that society ( and idiota like you) think there is something wrong with me
Thats it, nothing more, nothing less
>>17223030
>NUH UH EVERYONE ELSE IS WRONG!
I'm starting to think you're not even into fat women. I'm starting to think you're the fat woman, fishing for compliments. Fat faggot cunt. kek
>>17223033
>NUH UH EVERYONE ELSE IS WRONG
Did you even read the post? -_-
>>17222972
Perhaps you should read the comment a better you fucking moron.
He never said he's on either side of the coin. He just said the OP clearly didn't need shit and this thread was pointless from the get-go by his style of commenting.
Then again, do I expect you to have decent reading power? Kinda did, but hey, I'm in /adv/.
>>17223039
Yes.
> that society ( and idiota like you) think there is something wrong with me
Maybe, just maybe, there is something wrong with you, you fat pathetic mess.
>>17223043
>there is something wrong with you, you fat pathetic mess
What ever makes you feel better about yourself,dude. I still like fat woman tho :-)
>>17223074
>Trying to flip it again so that I'm totally the insecure one and you're oh so above us all
kek you silly fat shit
I'm the same way. I was attracted to them even as a little boy before I even knew what sex was. I have no idea why. It's tricky because I'm attracted to something they hate about themselves.
>>17223084
>>17222791
The main difference being I don't think I could date a thin girl at this point. Pic related is about as small as I would go
Reminder: This is a fat person's heart. Please stop allowing people to be fat.
>go look up a normal heart for comparison if you don't know the difference
>>17223096
2bh, I think you need a better pic. I'll help you.
>>17223096
>>17223102
Kill them all.
Fat women are see as sexually attractive in Mauritania,there have even been cases of girls and women being force fed.
>>17222791
Being overweight is not healthy. You'd be hurting your loved one by allowing her to be fat just to satisfy your fetish.
>>17223091
1.i just wanna say that she looks muy muy bueno :-)
2.also arn't there girls that accept their fatness?
>>17223422
>i'm not into feederism. Yeah, i like big girls but i would never force a girl to fatten up just to get me off.
>>17223472
How does one feel comfortable with being fat?
>>17223102
>>17223442
You guys are completely right, but heres the thing. (Keep in mind that i'm no physician so i'm probs wrong)
Arn't there diffrent body types? Like if two people eat the same kind and amount of food their entire life one could be still be much skinnier than the other? Or like mabye how some people can get big muscles and others are just up a creek without a paddle in the buff department?
I allways thought that people who have a natural disposition to fatness could just "handle" it better
>then agian i don't have any form of evidence for that
>>17223080
Lol, anon, it's obvious you want to just argue. Can't blame you, people are weirded out by what they don't understand, it's only natural
I won't be responding anymore because your to cool for a scrub like me to contend with
>trying to flip it again
Lol
>>17223489
>comfortable with being fat
Well not to be a tumblrfag but isn't there a fat acceptence movement going on?
And bbw modeling is also a thing.
Your reply seems as if woman innately want to be skinny as an instinct, is that true?
>>17223537
I'm chubby to fat and i hate it with a passion. Before anyone tells me, yes, i AM losing weight. But i do it the slow and steady way to prevent going bavk and gaining even more. So i tried to find some peace with my body because it will be still fat for a while. I did look into that whole "fat acceptance" bullshit. It's worthless. I want to be confident, radian and beautiful now. I know it is possible. I have seen fat girls like that. I won't stop getting in shape, but i want to find out how they do it and how i can achieve that myself.
To answer your question, every girl wants to be skinny in the right places. I think calling it an instinct is a bit much
>>17223610
I never really thought of it that way anon, but yeah, hope you get the body you are working toward
Because they have more sexual auric energy.
But seriously, for me though it occurred when I was 13 that I realized I was highly aroused by plump girls in some hard to describe special ways that could not compare to the way I would lust for skinnier ones. This was long before I saw porn, and I don't find hardly any of BBW porn appealing.
There must be a good evolutionary reason for this, but in the modern day it is a maladaptive spandrel. Nevertheless I still can't help but get super turned on when this part of a woman is exposed. As others have pointed out here it can be totally weird for women that the part they hate most about themselves some men are aroused by, and for all I know when I stop to look at chicks who let their gut and sides spill out they think I'm being mean to them when I'm really checking them out,
Even among chubby threads most 4chan users tell my my tastes are absurd.
>>17222791
There isn't really much use in trying to explain fetishes, you should just go for what you like.
The people who give you shit for your tastes are doing so because of their own insecurities and you should ignore them.
>>17223646
I would never let anyone see my belly. It's the manifestation of my shame.
Kek
>>17223782
Wirite "Manifestation of my shame" on your belly and post a picture. You'll be my hero.
>>17223809
That seems like a very tumblr thing to do
>>17223782
How do you think girls with bellies react when I smile at them and keep looking at their belly? Specific instance happened yesterday >>>/r9k/29067630
>>17222867
I'd say it has to do more with people and their deep-seated desire to try to separate themselves from animals, when we're exactly that.
The answer is that it's standard animal instinct. In most other cases on this planet, the males of a species are usually smaller while the women tend to be larger, for health and birth reasons.
Why we try so hard to act like we aren't animals is the most baffling thing in the world.
>>17223809
I actually did it and it felt pretty mean and wrong. I guess i don't hate my belly with that big of a passion after all.
>>17223881
You're cute anon! I'n trying to pursue a female with a belly like yours, and she's the cutest thing ever.
>>17223881
You call that a belly?
The only people who fat-shame women are other women and marketers
Ignore the people on here. Most men, not all, but most, who post on 4chan are pretty insecure, and so the idea of being seen in public with *gasp* a fat woman is actually threatening to them. Most people who're socially and sexually secure and successful with women are a lot cooler about this sort of thing -- able to say with good grace, hey, it's not my thing, but you do as you like, man.
We're pretty silly about fat women in our culture. I don't think extra weight is attractive -- it's a physical flaw like any other -- but a woman who'd be gorgeous thin isn't automatically rendered hideous because she's somewhat overweight. Less attractive than she might otherwise have been, maybe, but still attractive. And there's a lot to be said for novelty.
It sounds like you have a mild fetish, or at least a very strong 'type.' There's nothing wrong with that. It's not necessarily rooted in insecurity or a reaction to your overbearing mother or whatever. That's armchair psychobabble. Personally I'm about a thousand times more attracted to women with short hair and it's weird to me that most guys prefer long. I know exactly why: it all stems pretty directly from the day in middle school the girl I had a high octane crush on walked into the room with a short haircut. Maybe you had a similar experience that you've since forgotten about, or a thousand other smaller experiences that have accumulated to form your preference. Who knows, who cares, sexuality is subtler than most of the people on here realize. Don't stress about it.
>>17223881
Not even a proper belly, you should eat more.
>>17222993
>Then why the FUCK did you FUCKING ASK THIS ON FUCKING 4CHAN?
If you keep reading the answers actuall get pretty insightfull
>>17223929
But wait, fetish implies that there is an objective standard of beauty. What i consider fetishy is axulliary stuff like bdsm or liking pregnant woman. I know you siad MILD fetish but do people really think liking fatties is that wierd? If so then i guess i'm just a wierdo then
>>17223841
Because animals are pretty much driven by there instinct and simply what "feels good"
Most human that do that either go to jail, have garbage lives, or become at the very least, rancid douchebags
>>17223646
>sexual auric energy
Wut iz u talking about?
>>17222844
I can see this for men. More and more women I meet are desiring chubby or even fat builds over lean guys like myself. Something about the way that bigger guys fill out clothes looks more attractive I guess, also bigger arms have always been something women liked.
>>17224216
Just a lurker who prefers chubby guys and for me it just has to do with how you can feel up and knead/grope someone's stomach if they have a pooch. I love skinny guys' stomachs too but you can't do much with them.
>>17224179
The word 'fetish' isn't a perfect fit. From the sounds of it, it's a strong preference and it's not purely aesthetic, it's very much a sexual thing, which is why I used that word. But you don't have to call it that if you don't feel like it's a fair descriptor.
Like I said, I like girls with short hair. It's not an exclusive preference but it is a strong one. Some dudes have a strong preference for women of a certain race, Latinas or Asians or whatever, some gentlemen prefer blondes, you get the idea. Are they fetishists? Maybe some of them are, some are just dudes with a strong and well-defined 'type.' Does it really matter? Do you give a shit? It's all harmless anyway and nobody's business but your own.
>>17224229
I see. Can't say I really understand wanting to grab someone's stomach, but I guess it'd be like playing with tits for a guy lol
>>17224193
In the end all people are driven by what feels good. What differentiates us from animals is the ability to understand consequences and avoid actions that will hamper future happiness.
>be me
>goes to chubby chaser thread
>whatever, might be interesting
>shrugging.png
>reads some posts
>1.obligatory troll faggots
>2.Legit people with relevant thoughts
>troll faggots attack legit people
>legit people fire back with logic and reason
>troll faggots come back for round 2
>they get another condensed dose of logic and reason, then they fuck off
>me perplexed.jpg
> trolls are sub human less-than-animal creatures who attack for the lolz, why do they stop now
>...
>eureka.mp3
>could it be...
>Logic and reason
>Logic and reason= troll repellent
>sounds to good to be true
>must research this
>be me in different thread
>post some good bait
>(something about "all races being equal")
>what have i done.png
>the trolls come faster than Op when he is fantasizing about fat girls
>they flood me in posts about white genocide and "we invented everything"
>what have i done indeed.png
>i'm a goner, no hope for me
>life was fun while it lasted
>goodbye cruel world.mp3
>...
>wait
> hold up
> i still have a chance if i use...
>Logic and Reason
>The trolls stop dead in their tracks
>there flesh boils off their skin
>they pull out their hair in clumps and swallow it whole
>without any milk
>they begin to sodomize themselves with a deranged feverish determination
>they begin to start a diet and exercise plan for once in their life
>The trolls lay on the floor in a stupifyed stupor
>"what form of witchcraft is that anon?" "Are you of this earth you beast!?"
>"what do you mean?" I reply "I'm just using...
>Logic and Reason
>The trolls defecate blood into their limited edition 4chan panties
>they their teeth detaches from their gums as they swallow them leaving nothing but diseased gums
>they vomit in their own mouths to get the taste of Logic and Reason out
>weewooweewooweewoo.mp3
>crap, it's the 4chan police
>I forgot you can't use this much Logic & Reason in one place without facing the consequences
>i'm arrested and convicted of being a Serial Logicfag
>mfw
Ive become inexplicably interested in chubbier individuals
This was after player years of tf2
As a medic
