So do guys enjoy when a girl is texting them a lot/initiating contact a lot, or do they find it tedious or pathetic? I'm friends with this guy but I very rarely message first because I don't want to bother him or seem clingy.
If you're close, it's fine to do it often.
>>17222228
Depends on the guy. Nice guys won't really give a shit or enjoy it. Chads might get annoyed if the view you as unattractive. It helps to be hot.
Girls love the attention. So even if you're clingy, they love it. It doesn't mean they'll fuck you though. You have to find the sweet spot of texting enough that she knows you exist, but not too much so that you can keep her waiting a bit. It's an odd game to play if you're new to it or autistic, but it's necessary if you don't want to come off as desperate.
>>17222416
Okay but it's about a guy. I'm - the OP - am a girl...
>>17222453
Ah I misread thinking you were the guy. I believe the same goes for girls. In my experience, I have been drawn to girls who don't text as often. If they feel like a "sure thing" I'll pursue other women and keep them as a backup.
Think of the expression "we want what we can't have". Make yourself look hard to get by not texting and you will draw him in.
