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>Had a 3 year ldr relationship
>ended around January bec he cheated on me (he did this while he was visiting me in my home country btw)
>I tried fixing it by telling him that I'll forget everything if he will just drop any contacts with the chick but he refused
>obv we broke up
>we stopped messaging each other
>got depressed and shit but overcame it
>around May I'm already feeling better
>then he started messaging me again
>said the relationship between him and the chick didnt work out bec they want diff things or something
>asking for a second chance
>said he will never do that again etc etc (insert flowery words here)
>I didn't give a firm answer bec I didnt really want to be in a relationship atm but we started talking again like we used to
>he went to another country for vacation with his family
>he got drunk almost every night while he's in another country (most of the time alone or with another tourist)
>his mom and bro started messaging me that he took a local chick back to the hotel and went on a date with this tourist and shit
>I didnt really have the right to get mad bec we were technically not back together
>but that kinda hurt me so I was like "ok im so done with you already bye"
>and now he keeps on messaging me that nothing like that happened that he didnt have sex with anyone nor took anyone on a date or something
>said it was just a friendly gesture and he was just concerned bec he didnt want local chick to drive home drunk
>said the chick got her own hotel room and didnt stay at his etc


Idk /adv/ I dont really believe whatever he's saying anymore. I've already lost my trust in him even before this trip. But what do you think? Should I hear him out and give another chance?
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>>17221153
no, forget him. you're the safety net when his other pursuits don't work out. you don't want that for yourself.
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Tf you should have stopped talking to him ages ago. It doesn't matter what he did/didn't at the hotel, his attitude is shitty in general. Wake up anon.
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>>17221153
you probably deserved it. just something to think about
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>>17221174
Why would she deserve such thing tho?
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>>17221212
im not psychic. Maybe not one thing specifically, it could be a culmination of things. All I'm saying is I haven't met a single woman yet without a cunty character trait or habit.
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>>17221222
Hi, op here. When he cheated, he told his brother that it was because I was not adventurous (in terms of travelling) and because I was busy with uni. I know I can be a cunt sometimes but there's nothing that really bothered him much(as far as I know).
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>>17221153
>long distance
>cheated on you
>lied to you

XD guys what do I do? Should I date him lmao?
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>>17221246
Dude you sound dense as fuck how can you be in uni?
Just have some self respect and stop letting him walk all over you like you are a doormat wtf?!?!
Is this a troll?
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>>17222129
>>17222168

Well when you're in the actual situation, you become really dumb no matter how smart you are, unless you're totally emotionless.
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>>17221153
Others summed it up already.

He's a scumbag that's using you as a fallback point. Don't need that shit in your life.
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