If a male friend caresses you while acting silly, and when you get upset says that it's a joke, is it safe to say that they're gay and hitting on you? Should one break off contact with them if one isn't interested in men?
>>17219113
Don't do that or else people will think you're HOMOPHOBIC.
If he keeps doing that ask him what his deal is and tell him to stop.
Gay friends are kinda cool if they don't act like complete faggots.
>>17219118
But why was he doing what he did? Was it some kind of a joke, and I'm overreacting?
>>17219113
Let him clear your sexual orientation . It is best for your friend no false hopes done and neither confused.
>>17219131
If he did it once for only a couple seconds, he was very likely just joking.
>>17219144
Well, he caressed me several times over the course of a few seconds while having a silly laugh, until I showed visible annoyance. Is it safe to say he was joking? He also constantly makes sex-related jokes and asks questions which violate my personal boundaries.
>>17219222
From what you're telling me I'm almost certainly sure he's not gay.
>>17219237
Alright, thanks for advice. I wasn't sure because I'm slightly autistic.
>>17219243
It's ok. Sometimes the clearest things are hard to see because we're all retarded.
