Hiding your relationship
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Have you ever had to hide your relationship? Why? How did it go?
My case
>she's 19, arab
>dad left when she was a baby, mom raised her
>typical "women have to be watched but guys can do whatever they want"
>every sister has so far fled the house when old enough to take care of themselves becaus ehouse was oppressive
>every brother is over protective
>she's hiding me since she isn't allowed to have a boyfriend
>every activity out of the ordinary makes them suspicious
>last year she went to the museum every sunday and they thought she had someone
>we have three months ahead of us until we both leave town to two different places
Any opinion or advice on this is appreciated.
>>17211423
Nerve gas will do the trick
Tell her family that you're Jewish.
>>17211427
I'm half black.
Actually half of my black family is muslim and the other one is christian.
I already asked :
>what if I tell them i'm muslim
>what if we pretend I'm gay
Nothing will get a pass.
It could probably not be a big deal but she's unsure of her ability to lie, and today her brother called, asking where she was (as he usually does) she made up a lie, but it got her stressed out and leaving early.
If she's planning on cutting off contact with her mother anyway, let her go full rebel.
Try talking to them in their native language. At least an alternative they can understand.
I was 23 she was 17
She is 18 now
