How to solve all your issues.
>Get a haircut once every 2 weeks.
>Cut your nails regularly.
>Brush your teeth twice a day.
>Use some antiperspirant every day.
>Shower twice a day.
>Get a job - any job.
(It's easier to find work when you're already employed.)
>Get fresh clothes and shoes.
>Start cooking your own meals from scratch.
>Restrict your time on the computer to a minimum.
>Overcome resulting boredom, make yourself busy.
>Realize you've stopped thinking about your problems and become 50% more attractive and healthy.
Have I missed anything?
The love of my life dumped me when I got myself a job, restricted my computer time and got hobbies to make myself busy.
It's not like I want her back though, she looked fucking anguished whenever I finally returned home at 8 PM, and I think I heard her cry in the mornings.
>Have I missed anything?
Yap. You missed that this is infeasible unless you have a strong resolve and a shitload of motivation, which most of us lack.
>Get a haircut once every 2 weeks.
Why would I do that?
>>17211033
Damn son I didn't even put down the hard nerve racking stuff like joining a gym or going out socializing.
I used to be an unemployed lardo with sadness and it took about 2 years before I decided to just climb out of bed and get on with my life. You can either make that decision today, tomorrow, next week or in 2 years when you're even more out of touch. Either way, you will end up following these steps ^^^^ and they will work. Your body is just a container for your mind and if you start looking after that container all your problems will literally just seem to melt away. Even stuff like
>>17211027
will seem a whole lot less significant than it once did. You'll be able to let the woes of life glance off you in your stride without even thinking about it. I hope you can pull together the motivation to take even a tiny step in the right direction today - progress is progress.
>>17211038
>>17211038
I get a haircut once a month, then again i usually go bald, cause amazingly enough i like the bald/shaved look and my hair grows crazy fast but im a white guy with nappy nigger hair
>>17211013
Agree with everything except taking your shower twice a day. For me, once in the morning after the gym is enough.
You missed
>exercise
>pay attention to nutrition
>Spend time with friends
>Have sex regularly
>Get enough sunlight
>Remain positive and forgive
let's check the board for implications here...
>>17211013
instructions too unclear. still paralyzed.
what do?
>>17211013
I tried this, but my girlfriend was still pregnant. kept waiting for it to work but now its too late to abort.
what do now?
>>17211013
>shower twice a day
This ain't good depending on length and heat of shower. The general consensus is that one a day is enough.
Your list can be summed up with one word: momentum. Once you get things rolling, it's a lot easier to keep up with whatever life throws at you.
>>17211013
>How to solve all your issues.
Like the last answer?
Or the final soultion?
>>17211013
>>17211044
I don't live life for the sake of not feeling bad.
You sound like a boring motherfucker.
> No job security and no job prospects as have no skill or proper educational background for the job
> No social skills, most starting jobs require it here (restuarant, call center) thus very limited jerb availability.
> No money for shoes and clothes, nearing debt even.
> Never known a purpose in life, senpai and teachers end with ''you should do what you think is fun, go for it'' cue 8 years later still nowhere.
> Parents ultimately divorce, which is for the better. Then brother goes mental and there is fight everyday.
> Spend majority indoors as was harassed, kicked to the curb weekly by migrant shitskins
> Thrust nobody, get nervous in large masses.
> Make myself stoic, don't have a care for the world, ignore bills and kill little friendships, family contacts remaining. It's only way to keep from suicide.
Everyone in inner circle is git gud material, 1% university educated. Funny thing is I was headed that way until age 15, best grades, best schools etc. Then failed everything continuously, dropped important stem courses and whatnot.
I don't really know where to go from here. I either an hero or I pull myself up, somehow starting with gains but this was the same shit I told myself 6 years ago.
I think about doing FFL or moving abroad, but then I still don't have job security and income and I'll never know or delve into a job I'll love that pays.
