I can't cum
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I can only orgasm when my boyfriend goes down on me and when we have sex. We're in a LDR so we don't have sex often. I can't orgasm when I masturbate, I got a vibrator and I still can't cum. I watch porn, we've had skype sex, I just can't get myself off unless we are together. What's the deal
pretty funny considering its usually the other way around
anyway, maybe you need a stronger vibrator? what do you currently have? My gf has like 3
What part does he lick? If you can do the same stimulation by yourself but nothing, it must be you require both close physical and emotional connection to orgasm. Pretty sweet actually. If you can find your G spot that might work though,
Aum shanti shanti
>>17210789
As if one vibrator isn't bad enough already.
Get another guy. Don't kid yourself, you just said that you only get off from real human contact, so fuck someone else while he's not there.
I have a similar issue, only I don't cum from him going down on me, either. Only mildly painful sex does it for me. I've broken most of my vibrators trying, and tire myself out on my dildos.
I'm more or less just venting, I don't have any ideas to help the situation, except maybe try a wand vibrator? They're really strong. Hitachi is the go-to brand. I liked mine (different brands) a lot, and I got really close with them, but I broke them.
>>17211096
Would break up with you desu
>>17211118
Doesn't matter though.
>>17210789
How do you mean the other way around?
>>17211110
I was pretty similar, seems I could never relax enough during sex to get off, but a magic wand really helped me. Well it's not a magic wand as such but a kind of wand vibrator anyway.
