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Had a rough patch with the girlfriend due to circumstances regarding her parents divorce, her injury (car crash resulting in constant headache and pain in shoulders) and her job (as a result of her injury).
five weeks ago, I had a talk with her about how we had been pretty distant with each other and the lack of physical interaction as well as us communicating less. She asked me how I felt about her and I told her I loved her. I asked her the same and she said she didn't know anymore. So I broke up with her, think it was mostly due to my ego.
The past five weeks, I had zero contact with her. And I've realized that life really sucks without her. It's not that I miss her, or need her, but I know what a great girl she is and I really loved the person I was with her. That relationship was something else.
So I texted her yesterday basically telling her that I was too blind to see that when she needed me the most, I couldn't be there and that I was sorry for it. I also said it was a rash and dumb decision to break up with her without first talking with her about her feelings and what she wanted to do.
She responded saying that she wasn't prepared for that, that it came as a surprise but that she has now accepted it and hopes that this was for the best. She also added that she never once doubted about us or our relationship. (which of course made me feel like crap).
Did I do right to break things off? I really do want to be with her, but was too afraid that if I didn't break things off, she would instead... Should I pursue to reconcile? Or do you think this relationship is doomed?
I would really love your inputs in this since this is my first time feeling this way after a breakup and am totally lost as to what to do... I have had breakups before, but I really thought of this girl as "the one"...
