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2016-05-29 10:28:26 Post No. 17195293
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2016-05-29 10:28:26
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I've been in a relationship with my gf for almost 3 months. It is my first one. I'm 23, she's 21. We live 133 km apart.
I'm writing here because every day we argue. We love each other, but it's not easy when one day you try to break up, another day she wants to kill herself and disappear and the next you love each other .
She's fantastic to be friends with; always smiling, talkative, friendly. Once she's in a relationship she is different: she criticizes me A LOT (even her father told her she was changing his opinion on me), she wants me to change a lot (for her I'm too particular and have to become normal) and she's egoist.
She can't sleep 1 night on her own, in her house, without calling a male friend or me.I told her it's not normal and she told me to stop it. She wants to become a journalist and I should stay at home with the kids. I wanna travel abroad for years and work outdoors. Also, when we argue, she says stuff like "you didn't want to kill yourself, you were just overreacting" (she wanted to break up with me and i, drunk as fuck, pulled out a knife and tried to harakiri myself in front of her).
I've done a lot for her and she complains I do everything wrong: I went to a shrink AND a psychologist, trying to get a normal relationship, I have getting meds prescribed for bipolar people, which I don't even like because they make me dumb, I am spending 50 euros every time I come visit her and spend at hers days at a time without using the internet or speaking to other people, I take her out for restaurants and shopping even though I am broke, I stay with her despite my friends, her friends and even her mum's boyfriend told me to ditch her, I even called an ambulance for her when she felt very sick and threatened to dump me once she did.
I am so stressed by this situation I have asked other women to go out. In 3 months I didn't meet one new girl while she prides herself with me that she gets new phone numbers.
What should I do adv?