Why Woman
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>met a girl at a job I used to work with
>we became friends fast
>starting texting and talking all the time
>let me meet her family
>took me to her church
>she bought me a bible
>told me she loves me
>said we would be BFFs forever
>asked if we could date
>she said "God says wait"
>K
>waiting for a few weeks
>things were going good
>get a call from her
>shes crying and very upset
>tells me "God said no"
>K
>try to be just friends
>didn't work out too well
>finally told her I can't be your friend and your baggage and not date you and that you are leading me on
>she admits she is
>gets upset
>blocks my number
>I tried to call her on my moms phone
>she ignored me
>tried to get in touch with her
>finally get a text saying if I don't stop she will get her dad involved
>leave her alone for a few days
>then she texts me
>"I need the summer to recover there is a healing process because you hurt me so I'll text you in a few months"
>wtf is going on anymore
>sit here thinking what am I doing with my life
What should I do /adv/? Everyone I talk to thinks shes crazy as fuck and that I got lucky we didn't date and that I dogdged a bullet.
What does she mean by she needs the summer to "be alone and heal"?
Thanks
Do yourself a favor and don't dwell on it. Who's knows why she needs to heal, betcha her god doesn't even know. Abandon ship. She sounds like a total nutcase.
>>17192735
drop her man she sounds INSANE
>>17192846
>>17192849
Thanks for the replies bros.
Seriously, thank you. She has had many problems with guys in her life.
Should I block her ass or ignore her /adv/
>>17192966
Definitely, hopefully she doesn't start stalking you.
>>17192989
I just don't get it bro just fucking WHY
No one I know gets it
the heavily religious people are weird desu, hard to get into a relationship with one, unless you're religous yourself. Better block her
had a similar situation too
>got eye contact with a girl in school
>quiet type, everyone thinks she's weird
>fast forward 3 years later, became her classmate
>got to talk to her nd stuff
>we got close and started hanging out often
>dont think she's weird like everyone says
>tells me she loves me
>started dating
>let her meet her family
>weeks go by
>didnt think it'll work out so i dumped her
>"but god says we're meant to be"
>what
>told me she liked me 3 years ago up till now
>"ive always loved you when i 1st saw you. Cuz god says you're the only one for me"
>uhh okay?
>she tries to justify that god planned this
>"even if you hurt me, i still love you"
>everyone was right
>blocked her
>2 and half years later(today), found out that she still likes me
>everyone was still right
jesus why
>>17193042
Bro I feel you on that one. I don't get it anymore.
It's like she wants me as her friend but doesn't want to date a man right now. Literally told me she is done with dating last time we met.
>needs 2 months to "heal" from me blowing up her phone
Stressin me the fuck out. Thanks for all the help tho /adv/
>>17192735
ditch her. she doesnt want you the way she should. regardless of her feelings shes being a twat.
>>17193078
Yeah thanks I think I really need to get over this bitch.
I honestly think she will try to get me back into her little life to be her emotional cushion, as apparently all of this is my fault...
