High Number of Hookups
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I am almost setting into a relationship with a girl, but there is ONE thing on my mind.
She has had a high number of hookups. I don't mean sex. I was her first. She hadn't even done anything sexually before me. But just kissing, making out and stuff, at parties and such.
Should I be bothered by this considering the circumstances?
>>17190344
Why?
Even kids kiss from what i saw as a kid
Making out is a thing at 12 or whatever ita nothing special
>>17190344
God you must be jokeing
Promiscuity is a red flag
>>17190427
Why?
It's really an issue of how secure she is. Anyone, male or female, will do stupid shit for external validation when shit hits the fan.
You don't want to end up with someone like that, they have a lot of growing up to do.
On the other hand, if they're past a phase of their life, then go ahead. I'm suspicious of people who never got out and did stuff like that...my first girlfriend never did, and basically ruined our relationship to fuck someone because "I never got the chance to do that."
Insecure virgins and insecure sluts are basically in the same boat from my point of view. But I'd rather date a slut because she has less growing to do.
