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A boy that I idolised sexually and mentally abused me. Specifics are far too complicated. I'm really looking for general advice.
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>>17177321
Be happy?
Exercise and eat a healthy diet?
Drink a liter of water a day?

Not sure what kind of advice you're looking for with that little info.
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Learn from the lesson. Never put anyone on a pedestal and never give away your self respect to anyone no battery how much you love them because that will lead to the other not respecting you.
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>>17177360
OP here. Wonderful advice; thank you so much!!!!!!
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>>17177371
p. s.: love does not equal pleasing
Sometimes you will argue and you have to stand up for yourself. This is to be expected in every relationship, and if the other respects you just a tiny bit and is a worthwhile person to have a relationship with, he will accept constructive criticism.
p. p. s.: If others put you on a pedestal don't be a jerkoff to them.
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Talk, talk, talk. The more you talk about it with friends and people you trust the easier will it be to get over it.
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