>>17176231
find out if she's got a thing for corrupting innocent young men. if so, be completely yourself and let her teach you everything. you'll lose your virginity and she'll keep the experience in the spank bank forever. i know i did

Don't let yourself be "introduced into it" like a little boy
TAKE HER and feel yourself being the leading man in the situation.
That'll be great

use a condom

>>17176239
When you took your friends virginity, did it eventually turn into casual sex? My friend is very attractive and I wouldn't mind having casual sex with her.

>>17176241
I want to go raw for the first minute or two, from what I've researched it's much more pleasure with its unprotected sex.

>>17176240
What do you mean? Like be more assertive?

>>17176251
after i took his virginity, my feelings started getting as serious as his already were. we start dating and we've been together for 6 years now

>>17176255
>want to go raw

op pls

>>17176264
10/10 love story.

Seriously though I'm happy for you. I wish the case was the same for me where I had feelings for this girl.

>>17176255
Not the guy you replied to, but use a condom
You'll nut pretty quickly since it's your first time, just be sure to bring extra.

>>17176262
Yes try to get the chance to assert your inner male
My first time I let the girl do all the shit and I feel like this has marked me for the times that came after that. I kind of felt like I didn't know what to do and was in my head instead of giving the shit to her 'like a boss'. Absolutely do not regret it of course, but girls enjoy being taken by a male who's actually very into FUCKING HER
Though it seems like she's a cool girl so in any case it'll be a great first time for you, be happy man :)

>>17176268
Wat I do

>>17176276
My first time I did not nut at all. I used a condom, but I think since I didn't have any feelings for the girls my dick just went pornmode
Thus why the FUCKING HER thing is important imo
It's a chance to unstiffle yourself

>>17176239
and yes be yourself 100%, and that part of yourself that wants to rape the shit out of her and loose your virginity like a boss
You can spank her ass
You can pull her hair (not too hard)
Allow yourself to do the shit, or ask her before what she would/won't do
Also unprotected for first 1/2minutes.. is kind of weird, even though I get where you come from
Is it a one time only thing ? Guess if she likes it she will come for more. I know my first did come for more, but I feel like my lack of dominance/confidence was what made her stop after the third time

>>17176278
don't do it. even if it does end up feeling significantly better, it's a dumb idea. you're probably gonna cum really quickly, you could possibly get her pregnant, you not wearing the condom could stress her out and make her worry (that'd be a big one for me), and if you start off no condom you'll probably go without a condom again and again because you won't want to settle for anything less than rawdogging

bf asked to go raw one time, hasn't used a condom since lol

>>17176231
You're in good hands OP.

The only advice I have for you is to have fun with it. Since it'll be your first time don't hesitate to grab her and feel her up and look at her junk. Don't hesitate to do everything you've ever wanted to do to a woman.

You basically just stick it inside her and pee.

>>17176679
Do this OP, but do it in her butt.

>>17176231
Use a condom.
No "feels better" is worth STDs and unwanted kids.
My boyfriend and I have been fucking for 7 years, 4 of which without condom (I'm on birth control), and he still can barely handle 5 minutes without condom. God bless 2nd rounds.

>>17176231

Protip: You're first time is going to suck, that's a fact. For that matter, the first 10, 100 times will be varying degrees of suck too. And after that, it will still suck occasionally, or be messy or gross or disappointing, at least once in a while. You've just got to learn to roll with the punches and accept that sometimes you won't get off for whatever reason, or you'll get off too soon, or you won't even get hard. That's normal. What's not normal is getting so anxious about those things that they become a self-fulfilling prophecy.

You might as well start by learning how to give oral, since that has a manageable learning curve (as long as you aren't a clumsy retard and can take a hint) and that way when you stick it in, you aren't causing her pain. Nothing's worse than going in dry. Plus, you won't cum from giving oral, so that gets you a chance to become familiar with her body pretty thoroughly. Oh, and don't go sticking your fingers in willy-nilly. Sometimes they're wanted, sometimes not.

Wear a condom, if nothing else it will make you last longer. That said, I had to practice by masturbating with a condom on (because before doing that, condoms killed my boner instantly).

Take advantage of your late-teen virgin short refractory period which has no doubt emerged from years of furious masturbation - I don't last that long either, but I can be ready to go again in 10 minutes flat, and on the third time around I can last until I basically become so dehydrated that I start getting tunnel vision.

That said, it's not all about the length of time you sit there jackhammering like a retard on meth, there's technique and above all else communication. Learn how to tell when she's enjoying something - sometimes it's just slow strokes at a particular angle, other times it's a combination of thrusting and ear nibbling. Point being - sex sucks if you just do stuff without paying attention to how it feels for them.

>>17176231
Don't try to turn her off doing it again with you, like cumming on her face or inside (unless she's into that or if you don't care and for your own amusement). Later if she's willing it'll be fine