How do I stop thinking about other girls?
I'm married but I can't help but looking at girls on the street/hooker sites now and then. I married my wife because she's a good person and helped me a lot in life but my dick just seems to respond to makeup, tits and ass even if they're dumb bimbos
Sex without exactly what I want just makes me feel a bit depressed
>>17169319
Ask your wife to dress up like a dumb bimbo. I don't know how long you guys have been hitched, but you ought to be able to be open with one another about what you like in bed. Took me years to tell my 36D wife that I wanted to fuck her tits. Seemed too porny and crass. Turns out she likes it. Took her years to tell me to stick it in her butt. We're both embarrassed to have waited and try not to do stuff like that anymore.
And/or just be like nearly all men, and think about other women sometimes. If you're not actually making dates with hookers I think your behavior is fairly harmless.
But if you are looking to actually fuck professionals on the side, which your post kind of seems like it is implying, that seems a lot less harmless to me. Try doing your wife up first, then keep it to the looking and wanking, if you value your marriage (which it sounds like you do).
>>17169319
Thinking is fine. Doing something is not. Your dick doesn't rule your mind. Learn some damn discipline, you fucking manchild.
>>17169398
Just wife's body type doesn't do it for me, though it's probably mutual. I married the first girl I ever dated and similar for her.
Not sure how less than 9/10s feel motivated to have sex with each other... it just feels like being friends
>>17169319
Divorce and go out with a girl you like also physically
>>17169319
t i t s
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t i t s
s t i t
Ever thought about you know....talking to your wife?
Communication is key. Tell her that she'd look super hot in some lingerie, and get her to go get some. Then drink some red wine with her, make dinner together, start rubbing her shoulders, and say "you should show me that new lingerie you got."
Boom. Sex.
>>17169319
Take it from an old man,
You will always look. Maturity and morality lie in choosing not to do anything but look.
>>17169808
I'm thinking about avoiding just sex for the rest of my life
Just like Zuckerberg has his company to distract him from it
>>17169992
masturbate if you strongly feel the urges, i do it and i stop caring about sex for the rest of the day, or fuck your wife.
>>17169514
Shocker OP, but you just don't have sexual chemistry with your wife. That has to do with more than her not being superhot. There are millions of people everywhere going crazy over their normal looking partners... You just have no clue about this because you married the first girl who looked your way. The time old expression that love makes blind is not pulled out of thin air.
>>17169994
What's the difference between fapping and just doing it with a professional occasionally
>>17170011
Yeah but it can't be possible for everyone to find someone who's compatible in every aspect of life goals, personality, looks, sex, etc.
>>17169808
>>17169667
These.
Talk to her, man. We all get ups and downs, and part of being married is being there for the other when that happens.
If you're the better-looking and healthier of the two of you, and you're losing attraction for the other, it's YOU who needs to help make corrections in your marriage. My wife called me on gaining too much weight a couple of years ago. It sucked, and I was angry and embarassed, but she was right to do so. I'm healthier now and we have a lot more sex than we did 30lbs ago. Being able to talk about this shit is part of maintaining a happy, loving marriage. Acceptance is great, but helping each other better themselves is even better.
OP, get healthier. Your a husband, and supposed to lead. Do your fucking job. No woman likes a man with tits that rival hers.
>>17170038
I just want to play with some bigger tits
>>17170030
>What's the difference between fapping and just doing it with a professional occasionally
This is bait, I assume but, among other things, fapping carries no risk of arrest or of giving your wife a sexually transmitted infection (even with a condom it is possible to transmit both herpes, which never goes away, and HPV, which can cause genital warts and cervical cancer).
There's also the whole notion of betraying a partner's trust by sticking your penis in someone who isn't her. I don't know any married women who would be cool with their husbands fucking prostitutes, but all of them tolerate masturbation (and those that don't are crazy).
