Fucking a virgin
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Hey /adv/, so I have a girlfriend and she's great, we've been dating for like two months and change and she wants me to take her virginity. The problem is, I don't know how to go about doing this. She really has no exposure to sexual things, she doesn't watch porn or masturbate and I've been her first everything - kiss, handjob, blowjob dry hump etc. I asked her what position she wants to do and she says she doesn't know, and that we can try different ones.
I really don't want to disappoint. How do I satisfy someone who doesn't know how they like to be satisfied? So far from what I've gathered from the dry stuff we've done she responds well to being on top, and responds well to being bent over and taken from behind, but that's different from actual penetration.
Any tips appreciated, especially from femanons.
Have you done any fingering or oral on her yet? It's going to take a few sessions of that before you should attempt penetrative sex. Start with one finger, your pinky even, and then the next time do a bigger one, then the next time add one more, and so on. LOTS of foreplay beforehand each time to make sure she's aroused and relaxed. I'm talking like making out for more than 15 minutes and all that jazz. Be gentle and slow.
Also, you and her can't honestly expect you to make her cum if she has never made herself cum, especially not at first.
And remember to use contraceptives.
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Oh and I forgot the most important thing. COMMUNICATION. Talk. To. Each. Other. About everything. I know it's embarrassing, even more so for her probably, but it's essential. Talk about what you like, what you don't like, what you want, what's off limits, boundaries, talk during the act of sex, talk about it during completely nonsexual times, talk before, talk after, talk about what you want in terms of contraception and what you two would do if there did happen to be a pregnancy. It's all important.
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thanks anon
Go with anal to start.
She'll still have her virginity intact if it doesn't go well.
Like you said. She likes it from behind
