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Well, she had a boyfriend all along
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Maybe you guys have already heard me, i've updated this story quite a few times either on new threads or in ask opposite gender threads.

Anyway i don't really have a question, except maybe how do i react to this ?

Story
> Went to a party, met qt girl, she looks at me a lot, laughs at my shit, but she leaves early
> i add her on fb
> we start chatting, she's pretty cool
> hey we actually have a lot in common and she's REALLY cool
> ask her out
> she says she can't
> we keep talking, it's better and better
> finally she asks that we see each other this week
> says that she likes me, even when we don't have anything to say
> overall she's pretty flirty/sexual most of the time


So we were supposed to see each other tomorrow.
I just asked her about tomorrow if she was still okay.

She answers yes, and out of blue says "my boyfriend might be there too, is it okay ? :/ "
Holy shit. She had never mentioned a boyfriend before.

I tried to play it cool and answered with "Oh, i wasn't aware of that". She seemed more embarassed than me. I saw her typing a long answer and then she stopped (She told me she had low battery earlier so she will probably answer tonight)


So, like, what's going on ???
I don't even feel mad at her, i just feel really stupid and a little frustrated, to the point it made me laugh. We had good chemistry and she clearly showed interest.

How should i even react to that ? Was she an asshole for doing this ?
I really don't wanna act like an asshole and insult her or stop talking to her or whatever. I wanna tell her it's okay and we just got confused and that i should have been clearer about my intentions, is that correct ?

Also should i keep talking to her ? I mean she usually initiates conversations and i'm pretty sure she'll keep doing it after that. I don't mind talking to her but now that i know it'll never go anywhere...

Man what a shitty day, i feel stupid
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>>17154239

>she had a boyfriend
>who looked like a girlfriend
>that i had in february of last year
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>>17154239
there are a lot of women that are incredibly oblivious about these things, for some reason. I wouldn't waste too much thought on it
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okay what the hell she just told me that her boyfriend won't be there and she wants me to come so we can talk about it

Oh hell i'll go, i got nothing to lose now anyway
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You got played for a fool nigga
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>>17154433
seems like it friendo
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>>17154239
Holy shit she's crazy. What the fuck is with people who talk to other people for extended periods of time and never mention a boyfriend/girlfriend, but also aren't blatantly looking to cheat?

I don't even know what signals she's sending you. I've got a pussy, and I do not even know what she wants from you man.
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Sounds like she's deciding who she wants to be with.
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>>17154239
>now I know that it'll never go anywhere

So why talk to her?
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>>17154239
Don't feel stupid. It's shitty behaviour to get that close to someone of the opposite sex when you're supposedly in a relationship with someone else.
Male/female friendships don't exist (exept you grew up like brother/sister together). So yeah, stop talking with that stupid slut.

Sorry. Wasn't your fault, really.
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