>38 years young
>WIFE is 42
>250lbs
>20 year old been coming to my work and flirting with me
>hot body
>fap worthy legs
>10/10 cute face
>what do
Body looks like this
remind me, what oath did you take with your wife on your wedding day?
>letting your wife grow to 250 pounds
>not whipping your wife as soon as she weighs over 100 pounds
>>17138504
Yeah. I know.
>>17138509
>not having a fat fetish
>not being the one feeding your wife to 250 pounds and well beyond
>not reminding her at all times how disgusting she is, how lucky she is to have you, how if she left no one else will ever love a fat cow like her
>all while feeding her more cheesecake
get on my level anon
>>17138514
well then there's your answer, you made an oath now prove the worth of giving your word
>>17138501
>>42 years young
>>HUSBAND is 38
>>small/average penis
>>20 year old been coming to me while shopping and >flirting with me
>>hot body
>>can see large bulge in his pants
>>10/10 cute face
>>what do
She's not gonna fuck you. She just wants to see if she can get a married man to try and fuck her.
Don't cheat on your wife for some kid young enough to be your daughter.
>>17138509
She ain't a lady if she ain't 280, anon
Big is beautiful
Everyone cheats. Well not everyone, but the average person does. Just don't let her find out about it EVER and be safe. Don't be an asshole and confess in an attempt to make yourself feel better. The expression "what she doesn't know can't hurt her" exists for a reason.
Next time she comes to your work invite her to get a drink with you that night, right now if it's late enough. Whatever you end up doing together, take her to a hotel after and fuck her. Don't tell her about that, or invite her, just take her with you and if she doesn't want to go along for that ride she'll speak up.
>>17138600
>Everyone cheats. Well not everyone
This is why I have trust issues.
>what is faithfulness
>what is integrity
This shit isn't supposed to be easy. Do the right thing
>>17138600
>Everyone cheats. Well not everyone, but the average person does.
So, where did you get this statistic? Nationwide polls, right?
OP, don't listen to this /r9k/ redpilled loser. Not everyone cheats. Adults with self-control don't cheat. People who are smart enough to understand consequences of harmful actions, employ a bit of empathy and use a bit of foresight can keep their hand out of the cookie jar. There's never an excuse for infidelity no matter how hard you try to reason or justify.
What advantages are there to going through with this versus what harm is there to be done. A bit of fun at the expense of...? Even if she never finds out, what will you feel like for having done it? If you really think you'd feel proud of yourself for going through with it you probably wouldn't have started this thread.
>>17138607
Same here
>>17138501
Do you love your wife?
Are you physically attracted to her?
Have you brought this up with her?
Would a divorce be messy or painful? i.e if there are children involved or you would have to lose a significant amount of financial holding and income
If she agrees to change, you won! (As soon as she does lose the weight.)
If she refuses and divorce is painless, dump her and start fuckin'
If she refuses and divorce is messy, seek couples therapy. Otherwise cheat and screw, with the notion that if it fucks up your assets could become hers.
Good hunting, anon :^)
>>17138600
This. This is the solution that lets you (OP) enjoy the one life you get and prevents you becoming bitter and regretful about the fat wife.
>>17138642
This is the voice of naivety and idealism. It would be nice if the world worked this way. This person likely has a good looking partner of healthy weight and thus nothing to compalin about.
Enjoy the one life you have OP but do no harm and if there is a choice to be made, choose wisely.
>>17138501
That little skank is flirting with you because you're taken. She'll leave for some other naive asshole the minute you try to leave your wife.
>>17138504
and the wife was probably attractive before she became a fat disgusting pig. This why I would never marry a western woman they nearly always do this.
fucking real talk bro? Rub one out before you see this bitch and think about your marriage
>>17138600
This.
Just fucking cheat on the wife. It's just sex. Not that big a deal. Do it before you turn into a bitter sexless old man that regrets the choices he didn't make.
>>17139088
This holy shit.
>omg sex is a big deal im 38 btw
I bet OP doesn't want sex. Instead he wants to prove that he is still worth something, he is wanted etc. WELL HOW ABOUT YOU PROVE YOU HAVE FUCKING INTEGRITY HOLY SHIT.
>but the others cheat!
Yeah and they also take meth, become alcoholic, kill hitch hikers and fuck goats. So what?
If you need to stop and wonder if you really should do something, you probably shouldn't. Either fix your marriage or break up.
>>17138755
This is the voice of the downs. According to most researches if you're a cheater then you're a cheater regardless of how your partner looks. Some people, like >>17138600 and you, are immoral degenerates who would steal, rape or kill whenever they get the chance. Keep in mind that most people are strong enough to do the right thing. The society wouldn't be able to function otherwise.
I cheated on my current gf with an ex after we were like four years together. She never found out, seven years into the relationship now and pretty damn happy. Should you cheat? No, if you can help it at least. I fully admit that I did the wrong thing and trust me, if you have some kind of conscience, it will be the worst feeling you'll ever have in your life. I felt like utter shit for the next month. But does it get better? Yeah, yeah it does. You put that behind and move on. Is it ideal? No, but the world is not ideal. I hope I'll never do that again, especially if I am to marry this girl(which I probably will), but that does not mean it will play out like that.
>>17139274
If your current girlfriend would cheat on you would you prefer she told you or kept it secret?
>>17139277
Secret. Any day of the week.
>>17138501
I know a girl that would do this to all kinds of men. She was 17 and would be fucking men over 40 constantly. She was a 12/10 in every way imaginable.
Almost all of them ended in a broken marriage.
Fucking that girl is going to end your marriage. So, expect that.
Should have gotten it out of your system when you were young.
>>17138600
lol
This works. For all those who believe in true blue marriages, you're greatly deluded and highly idealistic.
You jerk off to porn and the image of another person, but for some reason that's not considered cheating. If your mind is already there, you will not satiate it just trying to deny yourself. Your wife is not empathetic to what you find sexy and desirable. I would discuss her weight problem first. See if all she needs is a push to get her ass thinner and somewhat attractive again. Obligation doesn't mean blind slavery. We as men enjoy the visual. Whereas women are into the emotional and mental attraction. She's castrating you, and no one should judge you if you have an affair. Especially if it's a one time thing. It takes two to tango. For every action there is a reaction.
Your fat wife has gotten to complacent and obviously doesn't care about your needs and wants. So if she isn't open to losing weight and making herself more attractive to her husband, you have the right to fuck any skank that throws her ass at you.
I used to not understand why my own dad did what he did. But as I got older, I start to understand him more and more and no longer judge him like some uptight muh Ten Commandments Christian fag.
I've been with women who are actually quite devoted to their husbands. But even they came to a point where their pussys weren't getting wet. Once they fell in love with me and saw that this affair is going nowhere. They start to feel like shit and realize they have a great guy and not just a hot piece of cock (me). They're all still happily married and no one is the wiser. Karma may strike back at me when I attempt to sustain this monogamous relationship I'm in now. But I made the smart move to find someone I'll never fall in love with. Though I'm not looking for a sexcapade with someone else, i won't deny a nice piece of pussy if it wants my cock. Just wrap it up and make zero communication after.
Inb4 muh degeneracy
>>17139545
These words would be great for your wedding vows, degenerate.
>>17139277
A cheater who kept it secret is likely to want their partner to do the same. It justifies the cheaters actions and puts them on the same level. You're not going to talk sense into them that way.
>>17139545
So porn is the gateway to cheating? That's interesting to know. I do think some people have more self control than that though. Just like how the evil gateway drug weed doesn't really turn everyone into heroin addicts.
>>17138501
How did you got with someone older than you OP? Which age?
>>17139554
Shove it up your ass Jesus freak
Your value system and wannabe honor are outdated and archaic. There are reasons psychologists exist. Victorian era muh precious pristine institute of marriage is one of the biggest blue pills in existence.
Let me guess, you have an Asian wife or are still a virgin.
Inb4 muh strawman
Just because a girl is being nice to you doesn't mean she's flirting. Don't make a fool out of yourself.
Your wife is fucking huge. I don't really get how that happens. If my gf starting getting dangerously obese I'd stop letting her eat so much goddamn food and start going to the gym with her.
I mean to get that fat most women would have to be eating like 4000 calories a day.
>>17138501
>what do
Be a cheating asshole, or get a divorce... Or don't do it.
Follow your dreams, however shitty they may be.
How good of shape are you in? Said about your wife and not yourself. Most men your age have a beer belly or are on the bigger size too OP. Doubt you'll tell the truth though. Lol
>>17138531
>greentexting incorrectly
How big of an asshole are you willing to be?
Not at all an asshole: Don't cheat on your wife.
Kind of an asshole: Tell your wife that you're losing attraction to her. You can be less of an asshole by offering to workout and diet with her.
Pretty big asshole: Cheat once to get it out of your system, confess to your wife it was a moment of weakness, beg her to stay, never do it again.
Gaping prolapsed anus: Cheat, fuck the consequences, lie through your teeth to her face about where you're going, live life of dishonesty until you inevitably give your wife HPV or herpes.
It's up to you, but personally, I'd go with the "kind of an asshole" option and try to get the wife into shape. 250 lbs is pretty bad, she needs to get her shit together.
>>17139795
>it's le current year
Not an argument degenerate.
If you don't believe in monogamy, that's a-okay. However, if you promise you will stay with this one person the entire marriage, then you promised.
If you can't be monogamous, don't marry or be a literal cuck with an open marriage. This stuff is simple. Keep your promises. Have some integrity.
>>17138562
>Big is beautiful
If they're very far away, then it's beautifully reassuring I'll give you that.
>>17139018
No wonder the divorce rate is at 50% when idiots like you are getting married based on looks alone.
Many of you need to ask yourselves if you'd still be with that person if their legs got sawed off in a brutal accident and their face disfigured before you exchange rings cause threads like these are made by proper scum only.
>>17139545
Amazing, you actually managed to convince yourself that cheating is taking the moral high ground with some contrived bullshit involving psychology and pornography.
>>17139204
>Keep in mind that most people are strong enough to do the right thing.
How naive.
You actually believe that? Typically people follow rules because it protects their reputation and well being, they also tell themselves they do it because they're good people because it feels good.
When tempted and able, most people cheat whatever rules society imposes. Romantic cheating in particular is a very common thing (among attractive and/or popular people), because it's relatively easy to hide & there's no law against it. Of course you don't hear about it much because usually the cheater makes puts in effort to not get caught. If you meet many couples up close you can see (or suspect) it all the time.
Nevermind cheating, I don't know how you haven't divorced at long time ago
My Asian wife thinks she's fat if she passes 103lbs
>>17140899
Eating to the point of morbid obesity is self inflicted
>>17140980
And it also isn't an irreversible situation. If someone gets morbidly obese it can be easily fixed with exercise, but using that as your excuse to cheat? Cause that's what it is, an excuse.
>When I met my husband he was captain of the footballing team with 6 pack abs and now he has a beer gut, should I cheat on him with this cuter younger guy?
Before most of you respond to these posts, take time to ask yourselves if you'd be giving the same response if the gender roles were reversed. I really doubt that you would be.
>>17140962
This.
I simply decided years ago when my wife decided she didn't need sex anymore (but will tolerate) that she cannot unilaterally decide that I should also be celibate or only have sex with her under sufferance. Fuck that.
I have a fabulous home life with her and an exciting sex life without her. Life's good.
>>17138501
This: >>17138543
And this is how idiots like you end up crying about alimony. Assuming you do have kids, you're risking ruining your marriage and having your children hate you possibly based on some dumb 20 year old girl taking a bet from her friends. You can cheat on your wife on this girl and keep it a secret but will she? Have you asked yourself that? What if she says she's going to tell your wife if you don't pay her $5000 every month? What do you do then genius? Cause I've read about scenarios like these where young girls get married men to be their inadvertent sugar daddies without having to sleep with them more than once, or maybe she gets pregnant and wants to keep the baby, what then? Is that something you're okay with happening? All these are questions and risks you haven't stopped to think about and consider all cause you're "thinking" with your throbbing dick.
>>17141000
>If someone gets morbidly obese it can be easily fixed with exercise
Technically true, but not really. If someone is so lazy to let morbid obesity sink in, the chance of that person summoning the will power to learn how to fix it AND actually sticking to the long commitment of fixing it is... very low.
I mean, how does someone even become obese? It's not like you wake up one day and you're fat as fuck. It takes months to get fat, even longer to become obese. What kind of person let's that happen? I started getting a slight gut and took care of that shit ASAP, can't imagine letting the situation slide for a whole year or more.
>>17141028
I'm not trying to debate fitness choices here or people's will powers...it's funny though that you're talking about willpower not to get fat but also condoning the will power not to be a cheating scum.
You shouldn't be getting married to anyone if your love for them is conditional on how they look alone, yes there should be a physical attraction, but when that gets taken away which it will eventually then there should be more...and this is why the divorce rate keeps going higher and people ending up in sad marriages cause they never took the time to find out if they really liked each other and could tolerate one another for an entire lifetime.
>>17141071
>it's funny though that you're talking about willpower not to get fat but also condoning the will power not to be a cheating scum.
No it's not. You're just insecure and projecting even though my post mentioned cheating or the op exactly zero times.
>>17141175
IF you're not addressing the OP then wtf were you doing responding to my post? People get fat, people get sick, people also get old and have saggy skin, these should never be used as excuses to cheat.
>You're just insecure and projecting
What am I insecure about exactly?
man cmon. you KNOW what you're supposed to do. you're just here to air your sexual frustrations to somebody. be true to your wife, you know what's right
Your wife probaly cheats on you anyway.
Don't be a faggot
>>17141271
If a post starts by citing a number, it's replying to that number.
You read like an insecure girl, possibly fat or maybe you have a bf that's fat.
>>17140976
Sweetie, is that you?!
>>17141375
Is this how pathetic trolling has gotten these days?
>>17141469
Legendary post bro, you got me.
>>17141480
I'm not trying to "get you" anywhere you retard, I'm simply trying to understand wtf it is you're trying to say unless you're just a stumbling drunk and you found yourself in this thread.
You call me insecure for no reason and dont even explain why, then now assume I'm a fat girl with a fat boyfriend...I am neither of these things so are you trolling or are you just retarded? What's your end game here other than just trying to be an annoyance?
>>17138501
Bang her, who cares about marital bonds these days anyway
>>17138501
Why don't you discipline your wife?
>>17139018
This honestly is the truth, it's awful in my area. I'd go as far as saying 80% at least of women with a kid in marriage go from hot and healthy, to giving up on life and getting obese rapidly.
It's depressing to be honest. Seriously 3/4 of the women in my local area over 25 are like this.
>>17142124
Yeah kinda agree but those who don't are usually keeping themselves in good shape for their side guy or to keep themselves attractive and marketable for work.
>>17142165
Really makes you feel like marriage in this country is a bum deal exclusively set aside for the idealistic and foolish.
>>17141493
"Apathy is more powerful than any weapon man has ever wielded". Why give energy to the people who are not contributing anything?
>>17138515
I nearly threw up just reading this.
