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I have strong feelings for a girl. I can't explain the whole
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I have strong feelings for a girl.
I can't explain the whole story, but in short, I want to be by her side but I also feel agony.
It's some sort of cliche romantic suffering.
Anyone else have gone trough the same situation before? What happened when you two managed to end up together?
I need to listen to your stories.
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>>17135429
>What happened when you two managed to end up together?

I have some bad news, Anon.
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>>17135433
?
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>>17135446
He's implying that he never ended up with her. Chances are, you might not end up with this girl either. Your options are

A) Get to know her a little, ask her out, pursue relationship

B) Do nothing, get over her

Only one of these has a chance of you ending up with her OP, choose wisely.
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>>17135450
As I said in the OP I already stated that I can't explain the whole story.
You're also working under the pressumption that she doesn't know about me/is not into me.
...
Provided you won't believe me otherwise, let's speak hypothetically.
Hypothetically speaking, the problem is me and not her.
There's something holding me from going ahead. Hypothetically, I see her as the logical and emotional partner of my life the same way she does me, but for some reason, I hypothetically can't do it. I can't even talk to her, it's a weird feeling. I don't know what it causing it, and it doesn't matter what it is, what matters is how can I deal with it and live happily ever after. That's what I'm asking advice about.
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>>17135463
>Hypothetically
>Hypothetically
>Hypothetically

I get it. Now onto the part that matters

>what matters is how can I deal with it and live happily ever after.

I gave you your answer. You just didn't like it. You can stop shitposting and just fucking ask her out, or you cannot. I don't really care what hypothetical existential abstract [big word that makes you feel unique] shit is stopping you. No one cares. Do what you need to do, and move on. That's how life is.
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Just explain the story.
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Deal with the agony
Or
Work out the issue behind the agony
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Have had two really strong loves, one and the other doesn't love me as strongly as I do her. Both hurt in different ways.

Your situation sounds strange, Haven't you been with her?
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>>17135429
just keep telling yourself it will never work out


that way if it does work out you'll be pleasantly surprised
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