Recently I've been struggling with desires to cheat on my girlfriend. I love her, which is why I feel conflicted, but I think being long distance just makes a part of my brain long for that physicality. Adding to the difficulty is the fact that in past relationships, I've cheated on the girl and she's never found out, making me want to do it again. Part of my mind says "you're young and sex is kinda fun" but the other says "don't be a shithead". Any recommendations?
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>>17132655
Ohh i feel ya. 4 year relationship and some days i just see a cute girl and can only think of having rough sex with her. Like a primal urge to just fuckkk
>>17132738
But you've never acted on it? I just get so frustrated with how easy it is now with Tinder and the like. I could probably bone someone tonight if I put forth the effort. I just don't really know if it's worth it.
>>17132744
Nope havent done it. Even when i had no chance of getting caught (in a different country). Fuck tinder tho. Its for teens and whores. I gain more of a physical attraction to someone i actually can see and talk to. Its so hard sometimes.
>>17132751
>it's for teens and whores
You do understand that these things are basically a plus for someone that wants to cheat, right?
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I would have thought /adv/ would be all over this to at least tell me I'm a shithead
>>17132852
It makes me feel like a complete dickhole but it just human nature. Its not a surprise that a foreign and concealed piece of ass is gonna arouse you vs the one youve seen hundreds of times. That doesnt mean you cant have a good relationship
>>17132655
We all get the urge.
It's just science. Anyone who says they don't are liars.
Just don't act on it. Usually when I masturbate I'll think of other women or something but I'd never actually DO it because I'd be a piece of shit and I'd feel guilty.
