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I was over ar my boyfriend's place and he let me borrow his PC while he was doing something. I was looking up stuff for one of my classes so I opened up his downloads folder and I found porn. Lots of porn. I then checked his browsing history and found shitload of porn sites that he visited almost everyday. I have talked to him about it but since we don't live together and can't have sex regularly I kinda understood and told him it was okay. But I just can't stop thinking about it. It makes me feel like I'm not good enough for him for some reason? He watches porn starring girls that look nothing like me and I'll never be able to look like them even if I tried my hardest because natural huge tits. And that's what turns him on. I don't know what to do. It makes me feel like I'm not enough

I know it's normal because, well, that's just the way it is, I can't always be there. But it just makes me feel down and so fucking anxious and I don't know what to do
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>He faps because he gets horny
>implying you aren't fucking the horny out of him
>implying you have to have sex to get him off

So why aren't you on his dick right now? No need to fap if he's empty.

Either you handle it or he does.
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Porn = fantasy
You = the real thing
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men are such pigs

ugh
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>>17132460
Okay fatty.
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>>17132459
this.
I would take real pussy over any amount of porn in the world in a heartbeat

he doesn't have unrealistic expectations of you, and everyone has a specific set of fetishes (in fact I'm glad you didn't look on my computer because there's MUCH worse stuff)

so don't take it personally. And guys just like looking at porn, it's relaxing and makes you sleepy before bed and it doesn't transfer to real life expectations hardly at all.
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>>17132460
Bait, everyone gets horny.

OP talk to him about what's bothering you, but he'll probably tell you that it's just getting it out of his system and that you're real and he loves you etc etc
I understand that it kinda sucks and that you feel inadequate but he's choosing you over some other big-breasted girl, that's what you have to remember. Obviously he's into you, even if he likes porn with girls that don't look like you, I'm sure most guys do (for the better or worse).
Don't beat yourself up over it OP, talk with him.
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Hi Op.
I been with my gf for 10 years, love her like year 1. We also don't live together due to financial reasons at the moment, Shit's tough out here.
We only get to have sex like once a week due to work. She also found my porn folder when I let her charge her phone via USB, and I didn't know her phone scanned for media once connected. So she found my gbs of porn. She asked me about it, and I told her the truth. "I get horny, I need stuff to jerk it too. I sure you get stressed as well." She didn't like the idea at first and got kind of angry at me. I shrugged it off since her reaction is somewhat normal.

Its been a while since theb and she pretty much came to understand a lot of men do this. We sometimes just archive porn for no reason as well, like we collect it and don't even fap to it. We just have it. She even knows I have collected pictures and videos from us fucking. Just because.

Just try to relax, we all look at it, but if your BF is alright, and smart enough, he should know the difference between the porn and you, who's real.

Better that you accept it, and pay it no mind. It's just to relieve stress. Either you can pump it out of him, or he'll do it himself. Better like this because if you force him to get rid of it, he won't. He'll just learn to hide it better.

Hell, you could always ask him if you still turn him on. Likely you do. The way it is a man likes tits and ass, we like looking at them. Regardless the size or shape, we like them, but when we have someone that we care about, those are our favorite pair. Providing that we get to play with them every now and then.

tl;dr relax.
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You cant have sex
He gets horny
Porn&faps

Thats it
No reason to feel inadequate of anything

Have sex with him more thats the only thing to do
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have you send him noodz regularly?
what about vids of you doing lewd stuff?
if you can't have sex regularly and you aren't cooperating for his libido, of course he would turn to porn.
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>>17132459
yep.
you should offer to give him a bj or sex while he watches porn.
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>>17132524
This is a good way to get blackmailed, OP, or have your everything leaked onto the net.
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>>17132535
just avoid taking pics of your whole face. Are all women this studip?
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I watch porn on the daily and have since I was 12. I don't tell my gf about it because I knew she'd react the same as you and think it was something to do with her when it's not. I enjoy having sex with her and only her, and we do so regularly about 4 or 5 times a week. I have a high libido and don't care about the women in porn in the slightest, I just want to get off 2 -3 times a day. I watch porn to blow my loan, or sometimes I just fantasize about cumming inside my girlfriend bareback and those are usually the best faps. I can easily live without porn but it's faster and easier to be stimulated with the sights and sounds of sex. I have no intention whatsoever of having sex with anyone other than my gf.
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>>17132456

> le clasic girl feels annoyed because boy faps to da pr0n

Stop doing this OP.
Boys fap to porn. That's how it is. There is nothing wrong with you, your looks or you guys' sexlife. He just faps to porn, like the rest of the 95% of the male population which does so.

Stop making a problem out of nothing, you will just bring bad things into the relationship for no reason.
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>>17132456
>It makes me feel like I'm not good enough for him for some reason?
Please don't put question marks on non-question sentences for some reason I find it annoying as shit.
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>>17132612
maybe I just want to? nothing wrong with it
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>>17132612
>stop triggering me
fuck off faggot.
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I know guys fap to porn, and I understand that. I didn't mean for my post to sound like a "WHAY THE FUCK this is what my boyfriend does i want him to stop fuckin pig that's DISGUSTINGGG". I just tend to worry about shit like that all the time and I needed people to tell me it's okay even though I know it's perfectly normal.

Anxiety, man.
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>>17132612
Didn't mean to do that.
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>>17132461
Kek, truth.

OP, the difference between porn, sluts and a loved one is that I still give a fuck about the SO after I blow my load. Your bf is the same way. Start worrying if he gives no shits about you after sex.
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>>17132456
Just curious due to the replies to this thread. How would men feel if their wives/gfs masturbated to porn of guys with huge dicks or women fucking huge dildos?
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