I dont know if this is the correct board to post this but here we go. Im a 22 yr old virgin and recently got a gf.Shes is really hot like a 8/10 but the problem is i cant get hard when we try to have sex. As soon as im getting my clothes off erection disapears. Im a fucking sensitive pussy because my heart starts to beat so fast and i get really nervous.We tried like 5 times and she knows im a virgin...
relax
Do any of you had the same problem during their 1st time? How can i stop being so nervous i literally start to shake when im getting my clothes off .She is really understanding and has no problem that im a virgin but i feel that a hot girl like her will leave me if this shit gonna go on
>>17128931
>>17128928
porn induced ed
>>17128928
Honestly wouldn't think it could happen, but it does
that happened to me the first few times I tried
just keep at it. get your flacid dick in her and play with her clit
>>17128928
>>17128931
Sexual performance anxiety my friend. My boyfriend had 0 sexual experience before we started dating and it was the same way. It's very common, especially for older virgins (he was 22). Being in the spotlight just made him really self conscious about both his body and inexperience even though I didn't have a problem with it.
The thing that really helped him get over it was doing things that took the focus off of him and his erection (or lack thereof), like oral sex. Giving me an orgasm both turned him on and boosted his confidence, and usually after he made me cum he was able to keep it up and fuck me. Good luck!
Do that, if you don't can't think of things to do google it
Drink some.
Not a lot. Don't get sick or sloppy. Just a bit to get a little uninhibited.
>>17128937
This has the opposite effect for some people, alcohol can sometimes actually cause erectile dysfunction
>>17128938
a.k.a. "whiskey dick"
>>17128928
Fuck off to fucking hell with your off-topic shit. What the actual fuck let you to believe that /soc/ is the correct board for this shit-tier faggotry? /soc/ is for cams and meetups. Your thread has ABSOLUTELY FUCKING NOTHING to do with cams and meetups. Fucking kill yourself you pathetic faggot.
I don't wanna hijack OP's thread but my question is kind of the same.
Now I don't get performance anxiety anymore, my first couple times I did though.
But this new girl in dating, she's into to some pretty hardcore stuff. Face sitting, facefucking, anal, creampie, light choking, etc.
I've never done stuff like that. Do I just go with the flow? I don't know how I'm gonna react when we do that stuff
