>>17128926
Define premature. Tell us the story.

>>17128978
I dont think it reaches two minutes desu. We did it 8 times now. Anything else you want to know?

>>17128985
Make her cum before you stick it in.

>>17128985
From what i know its random more or less
I had my ex come over and i didnt last 30sec, the week before i was fucking her for 2 hours and i lost my erection once i just couldn't cum

My ex what the type that could cum over 5 times during one hour and when i didnt last long she would actually be happy, something about liking her more/love and shit

>>17129001
This is also something i always do just in case and i always do it a few times too

Never had a problem that way
You feel bad if you come too fast but the girls feel inadequate and unattractive if you cant cum with them

You are probably masturbating inappropriately.
Yes, believe it or not, there is a proper way to masturbate, it's not just a matter of "loosen the deathgrip".

Stop watching porn in order to masturbate. Stop using aids such as onaholes, fleshlights et al, only use your hand. When masturbating, set aside the time and slowly bring yourself to the brink of orgasm 2-3 times before you actually let yourself go.

Ideally, one should only masturbate at most twice a week because after the masturbation, you should feel fully satisfied.

Isn't it related to nerves? Like you're nervous. Just calm down and realize that this girl wants your dick, man. Give it to her good, she wants it from you, no need to be nervous

Completely normal. You can use numbing cream, go for a more relaxed round two, or most effectively, eat her out and finger her so that she's already close once you start penetration.

Having said that the average amount of time actual thrusting lasts is only something like eight minutes, and that's on average for couples not hormonal teenage boys just starting to have sex. Don't fret it too much.

>>17128926
Man... let me explain how sex works: you are not supposed to make her cum by only using your penis.
You can train, etc., but even if you last, say, 40 minutes as I do, a lot of things depend on her. And even if it is the case, 40 minutes of pumping might just be boring as fuck.

Just fondle, gripe, eat her out.
Some girls come too quickly.
Others take ages.
Others never come by means of penetration.

For fucks sake I am a guy and prostate milking doesn't work on me. Could you believe that? But if I massage external perineum I can come without jerking.

Anatomy is a weird thing.

Also, the more you make it look like orgasm matters, the less she will enjoy because in the same way anxiety affects your erections and ejaculation time, the same applies to girls.

Are you wearing condoms?
Can you cum more than once or stay hard after cumming?
Slow down, do a lot of foreplay. Like other say, Ive actually always been able to get a girl off quicker and easier with my hands/mouth anyway. ( i actually suck at oral sex, but i can stil learn)
Be open to communicate, say the same thing you can learn. My theory is that you just lost your virginity right? youre young too so its almost definitely true this problem will pass after you keep having sex.
Its her fault if she can't get satisfied, not yours, you can work it out eventually, but dont worry.

>pull out, put pressure around the base of your cock for 10 seconds, slide back in
>alternatively, same as above, but pressure against your scrotum instead
>control your breathing, don't breathe too fast or shallow
>think of unsexy stuff, like going to the store and buying bread
>google tantric techniques

>>17129129
>Its her fault if she can't get satisfied, not yours
What kind of attitude is that?

I personally find premature ejaculation quite arousing. Not sure if it could be called a fetish but whenever I masturbate I always think back to the moments my previous sexual partners couldn't keep themselves from cumming. Fuck, I don't even know why it happens and I don't really care.

Not that this helps. I've heard that edging does, listen to >>17129041.

Either way, the majority of women can't cum from vaginal sex at all, they need clitoral stimulation. It's pretty common that you give the girl an orgasm first and only then stick it in. Many prefer it that way.

>>17129133
>implying going to the store and buying bread is unsexy in any way shape or form.

>>17129184
I took a wild guess. Of course you exist, but I didn't think you'd pay attention.

>>17129136
It's not saying it's her fault.
It is just saying it might depend on her mindset.

First time with my gf I was.super excited but as soon as she jumped on top of me I got flaccid. Too many expectations. First time I had a girl in my flat.

Next time I felt a bit better and got a boner that lasted ages.

Why shouldn't the same apply to women?

>>17129214
The equivalent of not getting a boner would be not getting wet. In which case I agree, it might not be solely on her depending on how the guy acted, but arousal mostly has to do with your own mindset yeah.

But the way you phrased it (satisfied instead of excited) kind of sounded to me like she could fuck off if what OP could offer her (in the sense of two minutes intercourse) did not satisfy her and she should work on that.
I know some people have this stance (your orgasm is your responsibility yada yada) but I just feel that's very bleak.

>>17128926
>suffer

You're not suffering, it's a naturally occurring mechanism for REPRODUCTIVE purposes.

Just do foreplay first, then you ejaculate, then you can make her orgasm through oral sex, and THEN start the actual penis in vagina sex.

There. Fixed.