One of my best friends had a friends with benefits type relationship with this girl for 2 years. He treated it like a relationship while she did not. Up until two months ago she stopped having sex with him, distanced herself from him dramatically, and really wants nothing else to do with him besides just stay friends. So now we're dating and he is taking it extremely hard. He always wanted a relationship with this girl and treated it like such but never got to that point. It was as he describes his first love, he never did anything with a girl prior to this so it was his first everything. So now she told him she wants nothing to do with him and that we're going to be dating and he hates me now and doesn't want to talk to me. I really like this girl and have known her for years and really see something good that could come out of this. Am I in the wrong? Makes me feel like shit.
He has no right to be butthurt if he was never in a relationship with her, but you're a shit friend for dating her if you know how he felt and still feels about her. You're no more in the right than he is.
>>17128347
Yeah, that's how I feel about it to be honest.
>>17128355
At least you're acknowledging how awful of a friend you are
yeah you're definitely in the wrong
1. she a slut
2. she a ho
3. you a bitch
4. you a shit friend homie
>>17128369
She's the only person that's in the right in this scenario
>>17128336
bros before hoes, especially if she is used goods
>>17128336
He was in love, probably still is, and led him on. While knowing the situation, you jumped on her the first chance you had, and you didn't even ask him if he would be okay with it. For not thinking about your best friend's feelings, you're scum.
>>17128400
>agrees to a fwb situation
nope she's a degenerate
So many girls in the world and you had to be with her and mess up the whole friendship? You deserve shit dude.
One of my best friends had a friends with benefits type relationship with this girl for 2 years. He treated it like a relationship while she did not. Up until two months ago she stopped having sex with him, distanced herself from him dramatically, and really wants nothing else to do with him besides just stay friends. So now we're dating and he is taking it extremely hard. He always wanted a relationship with this girl and treated it like such but never got to that point. It was as he describes his first love, he never did anything with a girl prior to this so it was his first everything. So now she told him she wants nothing to do with him and that we're going to be dating and he hates me now and doesn't want to talk to me. I really like this girl and have known her for years and really see something good that could come out of this. Am I in the wrong? Makes me feel like shit.
