I was having sex with a guy and he moved too fast i was hurt and said please take it out it hurts stop and he said I'll get used to it and he continued and i tried my fist on his belly to make him stop but he didn't
what is this am I in an abusive relationship?
>>17128187
I don't think you're even in a relationship based off how you described the encounter
>having sex with a guy
make sure you're not bleeding, nothing painful no abnormal discharge
if yes -> to hospital/rape clinic you go.
also, sounds like rape (physical/verbal refusal, penetration)
>>17128187
Idiots don't deserve advice.
>>17128187
It sounds like your guy doesn't know how to have sex, maybe watches too much porn? Or he doesn't see you as more than a fuckbuddy.
You need to talk it out and figure out yourself if you're being abused.
>>17128187
This is a huge bright red flag. You should leave the relationship over this.
I'm not joking, some people think it's petty shit, but if a guy refuses to stop fucking you as you hit his stomach, there's really no good to come of that. That's pretty much rape, as simple as it gets. I'm sorry OP, I hope you're able to leave this relationship as soon as possible
>>17128194
I am not sure but i agreed to have sex with him and I dont think its rape but is it a red flag?
Ya, OP.
>>17128206
I hope I'll fin d thte strengh to do that
>>17128187
I'll give you the strength, OP. Listen for it.
>>17128209
You made it very clear you didn't want to do it anymore, he kept going. You're not in the wrong here. Leave the relationship. I'm serious, you'll be much happier with someone who actually respects your basic human dignity during sex. This is a red flag, you should get out ASAP.
>>17128224
thanks a lot
