Need advice, so I came to /adv/
Basically wife doesn't really put out anymore. Shes pretty pregnant and can't really have sex, hurts too much etc.
I've been watching porn to sate me for the last 5 weeks. I wouldn't go out and straight cheat on my wife, but I have a huge fetish to talk dirty to another girl. Is talking/flirting/talking about sex to girls I used to bang kinda shitty? What should I do? Porn doesn't do it for me anymore. I wouldn't physically have sex with another girl, but the dirty talk with another person gets me off.
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Yes it's shitty. Be patient
>>17124741
if your wife is okay with it, its fine.
if your wife isn't okay with it, its not fine. if you are keeping it a secret from her, then you know its not fine.
>porn doesn't do it for me anymore
yes it does. if you can cum, you're fine. yes you want more, but you'll always want more. despite this you could still just masturbate to porn for the rest of your life.
there will be frustration. there is always frustration. decide now whats more important.
>>17124745
Just keep watching porn? Gets boring and tiring, miss having that spark per se.
>>17124750
Wife wouldn't be okay with it, I'm sure of that. When I cum from porn, it's like more of a drop of cum, takes a long ass time to get a boner, half the time I feel like I got more of a workout than anything.
I read a lot of craigslist posts for the women seeking men and stuff, reading that dirty talk on craigslist. Helps me a lot but it's really tempting to text one of them.
>>17124759
too bad.
>>17124759
look you fucking faggot, for you want to get a divorce, fuck someone while your wife is pregnant. you are cheating on your wife while she is going through immense pain.
>>17124773
Never cheated on her really besides dirty talking to an old ex.
>come to /adv/ seeking validation for something you know is wrong
>everyone tells you its wrong and not to do it
>still do it anyway
die in a fire OP
Imagine getting someone else pregnant and then getting double fucked by child support.
Remember, your sex drive is driving you to have kids. You have one coming, be patient. You really don't want more.
I did it once to an old ex. I read the craigslist posts to get me off most of the time. I'll hold back from doing it again since it's a major taboo. Appreciate it guys
